11 Best Swinger Dating Sites For Swingers

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When you’re searching for partners to have sex with, going into bars can be a drag. How on earth do you know when another couple is up for some fun?! It’s hard. 

The good news is that these days you can simply pop online, visit a free swinger site and find men and women who are looking for the exact same thing that you are. 

However, with numerous swingers’ sites in existence, finding the one that’s right for you isn’t easy. The task is complicated by the fact that the best swinger sites require payment before letting you send messages and meeting up with people.

For this reason, it’s super important that you choose the right website straight off the bat. In this article, we’re going to take a look at the best swinger sites around at the moment so that you can make a better, more informed decision.

Swing LifestyleBest Swinger Dating Site
AshleyMadisonBest For Finding Swingers & Affairs
AdultFriendFinderBest For Finding Swingers & Unicorn
KasidieBest For Adults & Swingers
True SwingersBest Social Network For Swingers

11 Best Swinger Dating Sites

1. Swing Lifestyle 

Swing Lifestyle

Swing Lifestyle is a swingers site with millions of swingers. It’s aimed at anyone who’s looking to pair up with other couples or find singles in the local vicinity. With around 6.5 million monthly visits, there’s plenty of choices and the site is home to one of the largest online swinger communities around.

While it’s possible to signup for free, there’s not a lot you can do until you subscribe to a premium membership plan. Prices start out at $14.95 per month, which is competitive and reasonable according to our research. 

An easy signup process means you can get started as soon as possible, there are lots of events going on all the time in your local area that you can join, while the members are active and always up for chatting and meeting. 

It’s also possible to stay totally anonymous to free members if you wish to retain your privacy. We think this is one of the best features of the Swing Lifestyle because it means your pictures will only be displayed to serious, paying members. 

You can upload nude photos, participate in video chats as well as block members. The prices are good, the signup process is nice and simple and there are plenty of singles and couples to choose from. However, the site design is not very attractive but it’s easy to use. Read Swinglifestyle review.

2. AdultFriendFinder 

Adult Friend Finder

AdultFriendFinder is the place to go if you want an original and exciting sexual experience that’s to your tastes. The website is crammed with millions of members who have all kinds of sexual preferences and appetites, from couples to singles, and it’s possible to use the website to find fuck buddies, sex parties or even just hookups.

One of the best things about Adult Friend Finder is the number of special features offered to paying members. Prices start out from £9.95 per month and for that, you get access to live member webcams, contests and the infamous Sex Academy, a place where you can learn more about sex. For example, you’ll be introduced to new terms and concepts you may not have heard of before – such as Sleep Fucking – and the Academy also offers helpful advice to newbies. 

Design-wise, Adult Friend Finder is a bit basic and cheap-looking but there’s no need to let that put you off. The homepage is still very erotic and plastered with thumbnails of members who are online at the moment. The website is easy to use, with everything you want right there on the home page. If you want to message someone ASAP, you can pop along to the home page, click on a profile and get started immediately.

Like any hookup site, AdultFriendFinder is home to its fair share of fake profiles. Fortunately, there is an easy way to differentiate a fake profile from a real one. Just look for the Gold membership icon – if a person is a Gold member, it means they’ve taken the time to pay for their account.

Landing exactly what you want from AFF is pretty easy, too. There are plenty of genuine members who are up for a good time and you can tweak what you’re looking for by using the search filters so that you’re able to find swingers just like you without any hassle.  Read AdultFriendFinder review.

3. Kasidie 

Kasidie

Kasidie is an adult community primarily for swingers. It has its very own Swingers Club that makes it easier than ever for you to meet like-minded people in your local area who want exactly what you want. There are lots of events being planned all the time on the website (local and national), and while this is a premium website, there are still a few things you can do for free while you test the waters.

For example, free members can browse events, search for members and read the forums. Being able to search for members helps you to see what kind of people are on here, which should help you decide whether or not to upgrade to a paid account. 

If you do decide to upgrade, prices are reasonable and start out from less than $1 a year if you lock yourself into a 12-month subscription. That’s arguably the best price we’ve come across on a swinger site. On the other hand, if you’d rather pay for a months worth of Kasidie, you would need to fork out $19.95.

Once you’re a fully paid-up member of Kasidie, there are a few special features you get access to. These include a Travel feature that lets you post your travel plans so that others can ask if they can join you. An eXXXtra feature, meanwhile, is where you can buy sex toys, while Club Listings is where you’ll find the sex parties that are being held nearby. 

In terms of meeting people for sex, the design is slightly overwhelming but you’ll soon get used to it. We’d prefer it if the profiles were less cluttered, but since most of the users seem to be real and genuine, there’s no reason why you can’t find what you’re looking for. 

4. Ashley Madison 

Ashley Madison

Ashley Madison is also one of the best swinger sites to find swingers nearby. Home to millions of members, Ashely Madison is a high-traffic website that’s marketed towards adulterous couples who are looking to inject some passion back into their sex life via a fling. While it’s not primarily a swinger site per se, there are plenty of willing singles on here who are looking to join couples for fun and games. 

Price-wise, Ashley Madison has courted controversy for allowing female members to use the site for free while male members are charged. There are 3 payment packages on offer to males, who have to then pay extra to send virtual gifts. 

Once you’re fully registered, Ashley Madison’s sensuous and erotic website design helps you to get in the mood. There are lots of special and unique features to take advantage of, including Winks, the aforementioned virtual gifts, as well as a feature called Travelling Man. This feature lets you message people in a city you’ll soon be visiting so that you can sort out a hookup in advance. 

Ashley Madison is now more secure than ever and there shouldn’t be a repeat of the data breach a few years back, while your chances of meeting swingers couple depend on how much effort you put into the site. It’s worth buying credits, filling out your profile and letting people know exactly what you’re looking for. Read Ashley Madison Review.

5. True Swingers 

True Swingers is a pretty upfront swingers site that gets straight to the point: It wants to know if you’re a swinger or not, and it wants to help you to find a like-minded singleton or couple in your area as soon as possible. This no-frills attitude can be seen in the layout of the website itself: It looks basic, a bit cheap but it’s easy to navigate and use. 

True Swingers also doesn’t mess around when it comes to nude photos, with a graphic gallery section open to free members as well as those who haven’t even registered for an account yet. You can filter photos and videos by tags, such as bisexual and bondage. 

Other than that, free and unregistered users can browse the forums and the FAQ section. We like the FAQ section and feel like it adds a lot of value to the site, as it introduces you to the concept of swinging and educates you about things like conduct, etiquette, and any legal issues. 

Once you’ve registered for an account, all you then need to do is head over to the Search bar at the top left of the homepage and tweak your search according to things like age, gender and last online. You can also search for certified users only, which ensures you won’t get chatting to fake profiles. 

The very best thing about True Swingers? It’s always free to register. And with over a thousand members typically online at any time, True Swingers one of the most popular free swingers site out there.

6. SDC (Swingers Date Club)

SDC

SDC is an established swingers dating site. Founded in 1999, it’s got millions of members, it’s safe and secure, and it’s open to both couples and singles who want to put a bit of pizzazz into their sex life. 

It’s free to download and use for 7 days, after which you’ll need to upgrade to a paid subscription if you wish to continue using SDC. Prices start from £9.16 per month if you lock yourself into a 12-month subscription, but you’ll have to pay £22.95 if you want to subscribe for just a month.

What do you get for your money? Access to 3 million paying members, you also get to post on the blog, watch videos posted by other members, join in contests, parties, and events, as well as book a room for SDCs upcoming events. 

Free members, meanwhile, can use the speed dating events, join in the community and even enter the video and photo spotlight. Design-wise, SDC looks rather elegant and erotic but at the same time, it’s all a bit basic. On the other hand, it’s easy to use and get the hang of. 

In terms of your chances of finding swingers, SDC does really well on this front. There are lots of singles and couples who are up for trying anything and everything in and out of the bedroom, and all kinds of sexual preferences and kinks are catered to. If you want to explore the swinging lifestyle and immerse yourself in a safe swingers community, SDC has a lot to offer.  

7. Alt

Alt.com

Alt is the swinger site to go to if you’re into kinks like fetish sex, bondage, and BDSM. It’s perfect for those of you who are a little curious and open to trying new things, as well as more experienced couples who are looking to add more people to their sexual frolics. 

It’s free to sign up, and some of the features you can use for free include the Flirt feature, the ability to send flowers, the ability to add users to your Hotlist or your friends’ list, and the ability to perform a Kink Search. 

Paid members, on the other hand, get access to 24/7 customer support, blogs, and groups, and they can send virtual gifts. They also get to contact new members before anyone else and their profiles appear at the top of the search list. 

One of the website’s more unique features, meanwhile, is something called Astrological Compatibility. This feature shows you which zodiac signs you’re most likely to hit it off with on a sexual level. 

Subscription packages are split between Silver and Gold memberships. The cheapest Silver package costs £8.95 per month if you subscribe for a minimum of 12 months, while the cheapest Gold package costs £8.95 per month if you lock yourself into an 18-month contract. Compared to rivals in our experience, Alt is one of the more expensive swingers sites. 

8. Fab Swingers 

Fab Swingers

Fab Swingers is a swinger website dedicated to the swinger lifestyle. Its tagline is “fun, free, fabulous” and it’s one of the safest and popular swinger websites around.

It’s not the most high-traffic site, with an estimated 500,000 total members from the UK, and it’s rather blandly designed. However, there are thousands of users who log in each day and there are plenty of genuine couples and singles who are looking for partners to swap.

What we like about Fab Swingers is that it promotes a very communal feel. Ages range from 18 to 55+, sign up is super easy but every single profile needs to be photo verified, and this can take 3 hours. 

It’s easy enough to make contact with other users because the website is so easy to use, and you can filter out users who are online or offline. A live cam function is one of the websites many features, while the fact that profiles are often very detailed is a major plus. Essentially, people who use Fab Swingers tend to be serious about meeting sexually adventurous people and the website is a great place to have fun while being unashamedly yourself. 

9. Swing Towns

Swing Towns

If you’re looking for some red hot sexual adventures with new people, ignore downtown and go to Swing Town instead. Swing Town looks a lot like Facebook, but don’t let this put you off. It’s a welcoming website that’s low in price, great to look at,  and focused especially on polyamorous singles and couples, as well as those looking for a threesome. 

It’s been around since 2000, set-up is super simple and quick and you only need to give out the most basic information before your profile is up and running. We’d prefer it if the profiles were a bit more detailed, but overall it should be easy enough to find what you’re looking for according to preferences. For example, there’s a Polyamorous Finder and a Threesome Finder to help you out. 

Price-wise, Swing Towns is one of the cheapest swinger sites in our review. You’ll pay just $5.75 per month if you lock yourself into a 12-month subscription package, while a one-month subscription costs $15.95. 

10. Swingers Heaven 

Swingers Heaven

Swingers Heaven is another swinger dating site that wants to create a safe and fun environment for swingers all over the world. Initially available only in the UK, the company has now created localised websites all over the world, from Canada to South Africa. 

Swingers Heaven has a proper community to feel to it, with users engaging in chat rooms, message boards, and forums all day long. The users here are friendly, open and genuine, with the moderators doing all they can to keep fake profiles out. 

You can create a joint profile with your partner if you prefer, the sign-up process is easy and shouldn’t take longer than 2 minutes, and it’s relatively simple enough to make new friends and meet up with like-minded people as long as you’re genuine, polite and nice. 

It’s affordable, too, with a 12-month subscription costing just £56.95 for the whole year. 

11. XMatch

XMatch

More of a hookup site for singles than an out-and-out swingers site, XMatch is still worth checking out if you fancy a bit of both. It’s full of people who have wildly different kinks and literally any sexual desire can be satisfied. In other words, if you’re looking for group sex, there’s absolutely no reason why you can’t find it here. 

With over 17,000,000 members from the UK alone, we found that there are roughly 5,000 members who are active each week. These numbers make XMatch one of the most happening hookup sites around. Ages vary from between 24 and 35, prices start from £9.95 per month for a 12-month subscription, and the website is clean, easy to use and responsive. 

In terms of how easy it is to meet someone, an easy way to avoid fake profiles and find genuine members is to look for verified profiles. You can send messages, Flirt with users, send Gifts and add them to your HotList. 

Other features include a virtual magazine and a Sex Academy that clues you up on a variety of different kinks. 

Takeaway:

These are the best swingers dating sites around at the moment. It’s a good idea to pick a few that you like the sound of before creating a free profile and having a look around. Once you’ve found the one you really like the look and feel of, go ahead and subscribe for however long you want and have some fun with it.For the best chances of success, make sure to fill out your profile, adding pics, a bio, and your sexual preferences, and put the effort in to make proper connections. 

Mary J. Gibson

Mary J. Gibson

Mary J. Gibson is a contributing editor at DatingXP.co. She is a sex & dating expert and often gets cited on Bustle, AskMen, Cosmopolitan, EliteDaily and a lot more big trusted publications. She stay up-to-date with the industry by interviewing and making connections with new and growing dating services.

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