{"id":13528,"date":"2023-08-11T07:11:28","date_gmt":"2023-08-11T07:11:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datingxp.co\/?p=13528"},"modified":"2023-08-15T03:30:58","modified_gmt":"2023-08-15T03:30:58","slug":"signs-an-older-woman-wants-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/datingxp.co\/signs-an-older-woman-wants-you\/","title":{"rendered":"15 Clear Signs An Older Woman Wants You"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

More women are dating younger men than ever before – which means there\u2019s every chance that knowing glance an older woman gave you means she might be into you.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Research has shown that 34% of single women are dating younger men<\/a> so it's safe to say it's not that uncommon. This is contrary to the long-held belief that, while it\u2019s perfectly okay for men to date younger men, it\u2019s not okay for women to date younger men.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This simply isn\u2019t true anymore. And because older women – call them cougars, call them MILFs, call them whatever you want – know this isn\u2019t true, you\u2019ll notice that more and more of them are growing in confidence when it comes to showing younger men that they want them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So if you\u2019re keen on dating an older woman and want to know what her choosing signals are? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Read on as we take a look at…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

15 signs an older woman wants you<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Body Language\u00a0Signs: If you can understand even the rudimentary elements of body language, there\u2019s every chance you\u2019ll understand when an older woman desires you. She will do things, look a certain way and touch you in a way that is a dead giveaway as to how she feels about the situation.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. She Bites Her Lips While Talking to You\u00a0<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Women tend to bite their lips when they\u2019re nervous – or when they\u2019re aroused.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If an older woman is into you, this is one of her subtest signs.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And she won\u2019t just bite her lips – she might also caress them gently with her fingers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lips are, of course, very sexual, and it\u2019s through lip play that a woman shows that she wants to kiss you, lick<\/em> you and do all kinds of things to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She may even be biting her lips subconsciously. But if she does it while she\u2019s in your company, take it as a strong sign that she wants you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. She Maintains Eye Contact <\/h3>\n\n\n\n

No, a cougar won\u2019t stare deep into your eyes at all times. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But she will lock eyes with you so that you know<\/em> you\u2019ve got her attention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When a woman gazes into your eyes as though she\u2019s under your spell, it means she\u2019s listening to what you\u2019re saying, but at the same time, she\u2019s also fantasizing about what it would feel like to be touched by you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You must look back into her eyes. Don\u2019t stare at her all the time (that would be creepy!), but if she\u2019s giving you eye contact, the least you can do is return it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. She Can't Keep Her Hands Off You\u00a0<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

When a woman touches a man, it\u2019s one of the strongest signs that she\u2019s into him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Despite this, many men continue to misread the situation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Naturally, there are different types of touches. But if a woman playfully punches your arm, tries to rearrange your collar or tie, or perhaps even gently caresses your thigh, it\u2019s a huge sign that she\u2019s into you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Touch is, of course, incredibly arousing. When a woman touches a man, it can set all kinds of chemicals off that can trigger attraction. And the thing is that a woman knows<\/em> this – which is why she does it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. She Mirrors Your Actions<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Imagine you\u2019re chatting with a cougar. You fold your arms, and she folds hers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You stroke your chin, and she strokes hers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You take a sip of your beer, and she takes a sip of her drink. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Weird?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not really<\/em>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead, this is her subconscious way of getting into rapport with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And she does it because she\u2019s attracted to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So the next time you\u2019re with an older woman, see if she mirrors your actions. If you sit back in your chair, see if she sits back in hers. If you lean forward, see if she leans forward. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. She Dresses to Kill <\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If an older woman turns up to meet you and literally covers everything <\/em>up, it\u2019s probably not a good sign. Maybe she\u2019s just not that into you, huh?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, if she turns up and exposes parts of her body – especially her cleavage, legs, neck<\/em> – there\u2019s every chance she\u2019s trying to turn you on. She\u2019s dressed this way for you<\/em>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Signs in The Way She Behaves:<\/strong>\u00a0They say that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. Therefore, is there really any<\/em> way to understand why a woman behaves the way she does?\u00a0Yes and No. But an older woman will have a fixed set of behaviors she falls back on when she wants you.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. She Flirts With You <\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Yes, women flirt with men they like, but they are necessarily sexually attracted. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Heck, sometimes they flirt with their male friends a little. After all, flirting is fun; it releases endorphins, and it makes us feel good. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But if an older woman is openly flirting with you and being sexual simultaneously, there\u2019s every chance she wants you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Please pay close attention to her body language when she flirts with you. Is she playing with her hair simultaneously, biting her lips, gazing into your eyes? Is she smiling suggestively? Does she playfully touch you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And is it clear that she wants you to flirt back? And is she enjoying<\/em> this so much that there\u2019s obviously a spark between the two of you? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Make sure to flirt back, by the way. A woman wants you to be good at flirting, and she wants you to (gently) tease her. Do it.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. She\u2019s Acts Hot and Cold\u00a0<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Older women don\u2019t tend to play games. While a younger woman might disrupt your flow with some seriously <\/em>hot and cold behavior, an older woman will only go hot and cold to see how you\u2019ll react. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

To see how interested you are in her. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

One moment she might be chatty and smiley, and the next, she might be distant and moody. All<\/em> women can be like this when they\u2019re getting to know a dude, which means she\u2019s sending you choosing signals. She wants to see how you\u2019ll react. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And if you desire her enough, you\u2019ll ask her out. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. She Laughs a Lot <\/h3>\n\n\n\n

A famous actor once said that after you\u2019ve made a woman laugh, the next step is sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The next step isn\u2019t always sex – but making a woman laugh helps build a bond between the two of you that can eventually lead to sex. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If an older woman is laughing at your jokes, and especially if she\u2019s laughing more than usual, it\u2019s a clear sign that she\u2019s into you. Maybe she giggles a lot too and playfully punches you on the arm. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. She Looks Thoughtfully at You <\/h3>\n\n\n\n

You know that look a woman gives when she\u2019s really<\/em> listening to you? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

She looks into your eyes, but she isn\u2019t smiling, and neither is she looking moody or deadly serious. Instead, she\u2019s looking thoughtfully at your eyes as though she\u2019s weighing things up in her mind. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s the kind of look that means you\u2019ve cast a spell over an older woman. You\u2019ve captured her imagination and attention, and she\u2019s staring into your eyes, thinking, \u201cI like this guy.\u201d No matter what\u2019s going on around you at that moment, she has only eyes and thoughts for you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. She Asks You a lot of Questions\u00a0<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Older women know what types of questions to ask a guy. They know exactly what to get you talking about.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And when a woman starts asking you questions and takes a keen interest in your life? It means she\u2019s eager to learn more about you – probably because she likes you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, if a woman really wasn\u2019t interested at all, she wouldn\u2019t ask any questions and would let the conversation die out naturally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Signs in Her Conversations:<\/strong> Lastly, pay very close attention to what she's saying to you. Older women reveal everything <\/em>via their conversation, so it\u2019s important that you listen to them and interpret their conversation correctly.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. She Tells You She\u2019s Single<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Imagine you\u2019re talking to a woman when she tells you she recently broke up with her partner or that she\u2019s been single for a while. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why would she share this information with you if she wasn\u2019t interested in you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s a good question – and the answer is that she wouldn\u2019t <\/em>share this information unless she really wanted you to know her relationship status.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If she tells you she\u2019s single, she\u2019s (not very subtly) telling you she\u2019s into you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. She Wants to Learn About You<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

We\u2019ve all been on dates with women who keep the conversation to themselves. These women are often self-absorbed, dull – and so into themselves that it\u2019s practically impossible for them to be into you<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If, on the other hand, you get talking to an older woman who\u2019s curious to learn more about you, take it as read that she\u2019s doing it for a reason – and the reason is generally that she\u2019s learning more about you to see if the two of you are compatible. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If she asks you questions such as \u201cwhat\u2019s your relationship with your parents?\u201d or \u201chave you ever thought about having children?\u201d she\u2019s basically vetting you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And if you give answers that she disagrees with? Well, the two of you probably won\u2019t date! No biggie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. She Wants to Sit Next to You When You Talk <\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Maybe she\u2019ll say something like, \u201cHey, it\u2019s so loud in here, I can barely hear you. Perhaps it\u2019s better if I move closer to you?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And while it seems as though she\u2019s just trying to hear your bet (and maybe<\/em> she is), this is often a VERY strong sign that a woman is into you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are two things at play here: First, she\u2019s determined to hear you better, which means she wants to hear what you have to say. She\u2019s interested in you and respects you enough to be able to hear the conversation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Second, she\u2019s kinda<\/em> making an excuse to get closer to you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. She Tells You She Trusts You <\/h3>\n\n\n\n

I remember the first time a girl said she trusted me. I told my buddy, and he said, \u201cyeah, she\u2019s friend-zoned you.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The thing is, that\u2019s not strictly true. Girls don't trust men easily. And older women – who have enough experience to know when a man is bullshitting them – trust guys even less easily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So when a woman says that she trusts you, she\u2019s essentially confiding in you, telling you that you mean something to her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And believe me – that\u2019s a huge deal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

15. She Compliments You <\/h3>\n\n\n\n

While it\u2019s true that older women compliment younger guys on being nice and because it\u2019s a nice thing to do, if you\u2019re hanging out with her and she\u2019s clearly paying you good compliments and making you smile, you can take it as a sign she wants you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Remember, good compliments don\u2019t always come easily. If she says you have a great smile, great hair, or maybe even a good body, she\u2019s conveying to you that she\u2019s impressed by you, she likes you – and she maybe even wants to have sex with you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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