Cracking the online dating code is hard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But guess what? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It gets a lot<\/em> easier if you nail the opening line.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Conversation starters are basically the cheat codes of online dating. If you can grab someone\u2019s attention with your icebreaker, you\u2019re halfway there to a first date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In this article, we\u2019re going to run you through 50 of the best (and flirtiest!) conversation starters. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Wow. With this fireball of an opener, you\u2019re inviting all kinds of flirty answers! Will they be the first to set a date? The first to kiss<\/em>?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n Of course,<\/em> your heart can wait longer (because you\u2019ve never met, duh). But this is a really cute, flirty opener that might even melt their heart. <\/p>\n\n\n\n There\u2019s literally no shame in greasing the wheels with a cheesy compliment like this.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n Making the other person appear to be the naughty one is always<\/em> a winner when it comes to dating, both online and offline. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Does cockiness always work? Nope. But a cocky opening message like this will make most<\/em> people grin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I mean, obviously, this isn\u2019t true. But it\u2019s still guaranteed to get a flirty message back (from most people at least). <\/p>\n\n\n\n This is one of my personal favorites. Each time I\u2019ve used it, I\u2019ve almost always got a \u201cdamn, you\u2019re right,\u201d message straight back. Nothing works better than making the other person feel a tad guilty for something they didn\u2019t even do! <\/p>\n\n\n\n Hilarious. Literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I\u2019ll level with you – this is a pretty smoochy opening line that you should only use on someone you\u2019re REALLY into. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Same deal as above. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Giving them a choice like this works so<\/em> damn often it\u2019s not even normal. Naturally, you need to have jokes, pick-up lines, and something cheesy lined up. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s corny, but it\u2019s flirty – and it can really work wonders in making them feel bad that they reply to you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Wanna set up a date as soon as possible? This kind of opening line makes your intentions clear. <\/p>\n\n\n\n This is an easy way to elicit a \u201cme too\u201d response – and then you can take things from there. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I mean, some people might see this as being a tad creepy if they don\u2019t get the flirty\/humorous undertones. But sometimes it really works. <\/p>\n\n\n\n OBVIOUSLY, dating apps didn\u2019t exist in your previous life. But that\u2019s what makes this icebreaker such a killer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n The thing with this opening line is that it lays down a challenge to them. Will they rise to it? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Will they save you from online dating oblivion?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n All girls love dogs! Using this A-star opening line is essential if you actually have a dog (and it always helps if you have a dog pic in at least one of your pics). <\/p>\n\n\n\n A song about two people who\u2019ve matched but not chatted yet? Brilliant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Damnnnn. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It can be her way of showing she\u2019s interested in you! <\/p>\n\n\n\n You just know she\u2019s gonna try so hard to make you remember what you said to her in your dream. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Extra ticket to what?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n Self-deprecating humor always wins. <\/p>\n\n\n\n This could get a bit naughty. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You can check this amazing list of Flirty Questions to ask a girl<\/a> because questions help you break the ice and keep the conversation flowing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If she doesn\u2019t get the movie reference, this opener will be a dead-end. So only<\/em> use it if she\u2019s already written on her bio that she\u2019s really into movies. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ooft. But maybe she\u2019d prefer it if you hadn\u2019t bothered to dress? <\/p>\n\n\n\n This is a great way to encourage her to be bold enough to send you a reply. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I mean, this is probably as smooth as conversation starters go. How can she say no to this<\/em>? Lend a guy a hand! <\/p>\n\n\n\n After all, no one wants a pen pal, right? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Obviously, she won\u2019t get a date with you if she commits your dealbreaker! The choice is hers. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Naturally, no one actually believes in love at the first match. But this is still a cute way to get someone to shoot you a reply, especially if she says on her bio that she\u2019s looking to settle down. <\/p>\n\n\n\n She might say it sucks – but that can still spark a conversation. And hey, she might giggle at your lame attempt (which is also cool). <\/p>\n\n\n\n I really like this opening line. It\u2019s not too serious but it helps you to both visualize being on a date together, which sets the scene for some flirting. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Way to woo a girl. If she\u2019s game, she\u2019ll ask \u201cwhat happened next?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Only send this if you're truly serious about looking for love online. If you\u2019re just looking for a pick-up, go with something else. <\/p>\n\n\n\n This is a GREAT way to arouse her curiosity. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ha. Funny. <\/p>\n\n\n\n She won\u2019t admit it. But it\u2019s probably true. <\/p>\n\n\n\n She can confirm or deny it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Again with the flattery. Works every time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Everyone prefers to chat, right? <\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s a bold statement – and one that\u2019s guaranteed to catch her attention. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I\u2019ve always said that people should be willing to do something different every day. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s DESTINY. <\/p>\n\n\n\n50 Flirty Conversation Starters to Break The Ice<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
1. \u201cOkay I\u2019ll make the first move when it comes to sending the first text. What will your first move be?\u201d<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
2. \u201cI\u2019ve already waited 6 hours to talk to you – my heart can\u2019t wait any longer.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
3. \u201cDamn, I matched with you because I thought you were the same person I bumped into yesterday. Turns out you\u2019re another hot person on this planet.\u201d<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
4. \u201cYou\u2019re sending so many mixed signals by matching me but not sending me a message. So naughty of you.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
5. \u201cI cannot believe you\u2019ve held off messaging me for so long. You deserve a medal.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
6. \u201cI had a dream that you messaged me! Now I\u2019m sad.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
7. \u201cIf we have time to match, we have time to chat. Let\u2019s sort it out.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
8. \u201cI\u2019ve not seen you in FOREVER! Literally.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
9. \u201cDid you smile as much as I did when we matched?\u201d<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
10. \u201cHey, I just woke up and decided you\u2019d be the first person I texted today. And maybe the last at night. If you want that.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
11. \u201cShould I open with a joke, a pick-up line, something cheesy \u2026 or just \u2018Hey\u2019?\u201d<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
12. \u201cIt\u2019s been two days since we matched, I feel like you\u2019ve forgotten I exist.\u201d<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
13. \u201cI\u2019m starving. Just tossing some first date ideas out there.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
14. \u201cStill single, three days after we matched. Just so you know.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
15. \u201cHey you.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
16. \u201cReckon we matched in a past life? You look familiar.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
17. \u201cJust stuck Netflix on but wondering if talking to you would be more entertaining.\u201d<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
18. \u201cMy dating app will apparently self-destruct unless you reply to me. That's what I got told anyway.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
19. \u201cMy dog was so happy when we matched.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
20. \u201cLiterally just heard a song on the radio that describes our situation right now so perfectly.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
21. \u201cLevel with me. You\u2019ve been checking your app constantly to see if I\u2019ve texted, right?\u201d<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
22. \u201cWould love a text back so much that even an emoji would work right now. A cute one.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
23. \u201cI dreamt that I opened with a killer line \u2026 but then woke up and all I\u2019ve got now is \u2018hey.\u2019\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
24. \u201cI\u2019ve got an extra ticket. Interested?\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
25. \u201cI don\u2019t know what it is with me. I\u2019m always the one who starts a conversation and the other person always ends it.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
26. \u201cIf you could choose an emoji to describe what you felt when we first matched, which one would you choose?\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
27. \u201cLook at me, ma, I\u2019m sending the first message, ma!\u201d<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
28. \u201cJust had to put on some clothes to send this opening message. Because I\u2019m a gentleman.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
29. \u201cDo you ever text first? Or do I make you nervous?\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
30. \u201cCan you help me with a problem? I need to get off this dating app.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
31. \u201cWe matched ages ago. Should we just skip to the first date now?\u201d<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
32. \u201cMy biggest deal breaker is a girl who doesn't reply to my opening message.\u201d<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
33. \u201cDo you believe in love at a first match?\u201d<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
34. \u201cRate my opening message out of 10 please.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
35. \u201cIf we went on a date based on the interests in our profiles, where would we go?\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
36. \u201cI literally had a dream that we would match.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
37. \u201cWell damn, I didn\u2019t join to find my soulmate. But you\u2019ve got me rethinking.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
38. \u201cI\u2019m surprised you matched with me. They say I\u2019m trouble \u2026\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
39. \u201cHey, sorry I haven\u2019t sent the first message until now. I tried texting you but it turns out I haven\u2019t got your number.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
40. \u201cAdmit it. When you saw you had a new message you were hoping it\u2019d be from me.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
41. \u201cFine, I\u2019ll send the first message if you send the second. Do we have a deal?\u201d<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
42. \u201cI usually send dirty icebreakers. But you\u2019ve already turned me into a gentleman.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
43. \u201cDo you prefer matching or talking?\u201d<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
44. \u201cOut of all your matches, none of them can juggle with fire like I can.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
45. \u201cI think we should both try something new today! Like talking to each other.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
46. \u201cYou\u2019re my 33rd match. 33 is my favorite number. It means something.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
47. \u201cSo, you\u2019ve matched with me. Congrats. You have completed online dating.\u201d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n