This is key<\/strong>. It is a waste of a Super Like if you have bad photos (selfies, group photos, bad. background) and\/or an uninteresting bio. <\/p>\n\n\n\nYou are breaking from the pack here and jumping the gun a bit \u2013after all, the whole idea of Tinder is that the other person won\u2019t know you like them until they say they like you too- so you don\u2019t want to have an unremarkable profile after you did that very brave Super Liking thing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
That\u2019s where you appear creepy instead of attractive<\/u> and way too intense instead of interesting. This is where a good Tinder bio comes in very handy as well as having just the right photos in your profile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Remember, you are giving them an open letter of presentation and you\u2019re not waiting for them to pick it out from the bunch. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
You\u2019re strongly encouraging them to read it, so please, make it worth their time<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tip #2 Don't Waste Your Super-Like <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Don\u2019t just Super Like anyone<\/strong>. Be selective. <\/p>\n\n\n\nRemember, you are saying that you\u2019re really interested in them, so only do it when this is actually true. That way, you stay far away from the \u201cdesperate\u201d line and get closer to the \u201cactually interested\u201d side of the spectrum, and that\u2019s really all it is about! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
You get one Super Like a day, you don\u2019t want to use it in just anyone, and you want to make it worth your time. Or even if you have Tinder Plus or Tinder Goal, five Super Likes a day is not really that much if you think about it, so consider your decision wisely before going for that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tip #3 Follow through!<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
This should be obvious but just in case\u2026be sure to follow through with that Super Like! So you Super Liked her and she liked you back! Awesome, it\u2019s a match. Now actually text her. I\u2019ve seen it happen so many times, and it doesn\u2019t make any sense to me. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
The number of matches in which no one ever starts the actual conversation is outstanding! So please, pretty please with a cherry on top, don\u2019t let her go! Follow that Super Like with a good opening line (Please don\u2019t just say \u201cHey\u201d or \u201cWhat\u2019s up\u201d<\/strong>). <\/p>\n\n\n\nAn extra tip here:<\/strong> If you Super Liked her and you were following my advice on actually Super Liking people that you\u2019re really interested in, then there must be something about her photos or her bio that you actually really like, so why not start there?<\/p>\n\n\n\nAfter all, you took a risk and it paid up, so now, it\u2019s time to pace yourself a little bit so that you won\u2019t come across as too intense for their taste.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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