I\u2019ve heard it many times \u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cNo one messages me! Am I ugly? Guess I should quit right now and adopt loads of cats.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n
A quick perusal of their online dating profile tells me all I need to know: It\u2019s just not good enough.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Anyone with an attractive dating profile can attract the right sort of person they\u2019re looking for. But actually, crafting that superstar profile in the first? Well, that can often be the tricky bit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The good news is that you\u2019re in luck today because I\u2019ve created a rundown of the top tips for writing a perfect online dating profile that will have all<\/em> eyes on you.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n The even better news is that anyone<\/em> can implement these hacks to get more matches and attract more quality singles on regular basis.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n Let\u2019s get the non-writing bit out of the way first. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Your profile photos are your prime real estate. It doesn\u2019t matter whether you\u2019re a 10\/10 or a 5\/10, if you choose the right pics, you can get a lot of interest. <\/p>\n\n\n\n The problem is that too many singles choose the wrong<\/em> pics. They upload only headshots, or they filter them heavily. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you upload just headshots, you\u2019ll look like you\u2019ve got something to hide. It\u2019s the same with heavily filtered photos. They\u2019re not real. <\/p>\n\n\n\n And how about those photos where you\u2019re looking away from the camera? People want to see your face, people!<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dos and Don't of choosing the right profile photos:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n It's important to remember that you should showcase the full version of yourself, not just your best features. This means that your profile pictures should be a realistic representation of your current self, without any heavy filters or pictures from years ago.<\/p>\n\n\n\n To truly capture your personality and give others an idea of who you are, it's recommended to include at least three to five photos. These photos should provide a reflection of your life and interests, without overloading the profile with too many images. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Remember, the key is to showcase a balanced and authentic depiction of yourself so that potential matches can get a real sense of who you are as a person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You probably don't realize it but the background can say a lot about you and even be a turn-off for potential matches. For instance, a messy or cluttered background can give the impression that you're disorganized or unkempt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Similarly, a background that's too revealing or inappropriate can give the wrong impression of your personality. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Therefore, it's recommended to choose a background that's clean, neutral, and reflective of your personality. A great background can add depth to your photos and make you look more attractive to potential matches.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Now, exactly how you write your online dating profile will vary from platform to platform. We have an article all about writing online dating profiles for different sites here. <\/p>\n\n\n\n However, the trick for any app is to keep your profile short, snappy, and compelling. How do you do all three?\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n One of the problems I see with bad dating profiles is that they just don\u2019t leave any bait in there. There\u2019s nothing for me to get curious about and use to start a conversation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s like this: <\/strong>If your online dating profile reads \u201cHey, if you like my pics message me! Not sure what else to put here?\u201d You\u2019re making it very<\/em> hard on yourself to attract someone interesting. <\/p>\n\n\n\n What on earth can they use as a good conversation starter? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Personally, I like to see a bit of bait in a profile that I can use to get a conversation going.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Now, this can be anything but here\u2019s an example. Let\u2019s say you have an unusual job. While you don\u2019t have to draw a lot of attention to it by saying \u201cLOOK WHAT I DO AREN\u2019T I UNIQUE?\u201d\u2019 You should list it in your profile. That way, you might get someone who comes along and asks for \u20183 chances to guess your job.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n Other ways you can elicit curiosity:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n You just need something that\u2019s an entry point for someone. Don\u2019t make it hard for everyone to approach you with something other than \u201chey.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n While you definitely should not rely on emojis only, it\u2019s always a good idea to chuck them in there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Emojis show that you\u2019ve got a sense of fun, and they\u2019re also a good way of demonstrating your interests without you writing too much.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s like I said earlier – your profile should ideally be short, and snappy, but compelling. If you decide to list every single interest, you\u2019ll ruin all of that because it will just be too gosh darn much.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So how about using emojis to fill in the blanks? <\/p>\n\n\n\n For example, if you love watching movies, add the popcorn emoji. If you love sunshine, sprinkle your profile with the sunshine emoji. If you\u2019re from a different country, add your country\u2019s flag. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Emojis are easy on the eye, they grab attention and help to flaunt your personality. Use \u2018em.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n Like a lot of the advice in this article, this isn\u2019t set in stone and it depends on what dating app you\u2019re on. But it\u2019s always a good idea to give your online dating profile some structure so that you guide the reader's eye.<\/p>\n\n\n\n For example<\/em><\/strong>, you could open with an introduction. \u201cHey, I\u2019m Jill.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Then, you could write briefly your interests, before talking briefly about yourself \u2026 before ending with what you\u2019re looking for. Like this: <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cHey, I\u2019m Jill *insert emoji*<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Vegan, hipster, metal music, illustration.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Looking for someone who laughs at themselves as much as I do.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s a good sign if you can use language that flows and engages people. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Examples:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cHey, how\u2019s it going? I know what you\u2019re thinking – yet another dating profile you have to read through! Well, here\u2019s the deal and I\u2019ll keep it brief: I\u2019m looking for some laughs, some fun and possibly even some romance. Sound good?\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n The person writing this is already having a conversation with you and engaging you. They\u2019re arousing interest and asking questions while also showcasing their personality. <\/p>\n\n\n\n However……<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you\u2019re not confident about pulling off a conversational style, you could make your profile slicker.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Example:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cErica. 28. Obsessed with pizza. Will sing in public if a Backstreet Boys song comes on.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s simple, the straight-to-the-point. It\u2019s got a bit of wit and it\u2019s compelling enough for someone to have an entry point to a conversation.\u00a0Plus, anyone can write it. Alternatively, you could use bullet points to list your interests while keeping it slick. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Like this: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Whatever you list in your bullets has to mean something to you. For example, if you\u2019re a tall girl and you think this matters, list it. If you\u2019re vegetarian and this matters, list it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I get that it\u2019s not easy to say you have kids on your online dating profile if you have \u2018em. But you have to do it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you're looking for a committed relationship or hookups, tell them in your bio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you leave this bit blank, you\u2019re only going to set yourself up for disappointment later on when you mention them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cCan you pass the salt? OH, BTW I HAVE 4 KIDS.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s the same as your age. Be honest about your age and everything else, from your career to your current job. Don\u2019t lie on your profile \ud83d\ude42 <\/p>\n\n\n\n Honesty is the best policy on dating sites and the dating world in general because you will attract the vibe you put out. If you\u2019re 100% upfront about having two kids straight off the bat, you will attract the right person or an ideal person, or even a perfect person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In other words, a kind, caring, grown-up gentleman. As opposed to a player who\u2019s going to flat-out block you as soon as you drop the bombshell, leaving you dejected. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I\u2019ve seen profiles like this before:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cNot looking for ___ Don\u2019t like ___ So if this is you, keep jogging.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s so<\/em> negative and off-putting. Why would anyone want to message someone who\u2019s already being really confrontational?<\/p>\n\n\n\n All you have to do is flip that so that it looks like this: <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cLooking for ___! Love ___! So if this sounds like you, hit me up?!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n See how much more positive, friendly, and inviting that is? <\/p>\n\n\n\n While stating what you\u2019re not looking for will filter out people you\u2019re not interested in, so will stating what you are<\/em> looking for. And this latter option is much more appealing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I mean, there\u2019s nothing wrong<\/em> with being negative in your profile and talking about nihilism, how life sucks, and how the world is broken \u2026 but negative vibes attract negative people. You have to think about who you want to attract. If you want someone positive and easygoing, you need to project that vibe with your profile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n The easiest way to appear positive in your dating profile is to:<\/p>\n\n\n\n I can't believe I've to mention this but avoid making spelling mistakes and using poor grammar mistakes if you want to get more right swipes<\/p>\n\n\n\n Takeaway:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Writing a dating profile shouldn\u2019t seem like rocket science. I mean, it\u2019s both a science and an art and it will take so much time for you to get it right. But that\u2019s okay. Use the tips in this article, write a profile, and then see what happens next. If you\u2019re still not getting the results you wanted, just keep making minor tweaks as you go along.\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" I\u2019ve heard it many times \u2026 \u201cNo one messages me! Am I ugly? 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