{"id":389,"date":"2023-08-21T19:47:58","date_gmt":"2023-08-21T19:47:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datingxp.co\/?p=389"},"modified":"2023-03-03T07:19:47","modified_gmt":"2023-03-03T07:19:47","slug":"tinder-etiquette","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/datingxp.co\/tinder-etiquette\/","title":{"rendered":"13 Tinder Etiquette For Men: Messaging, First Date, Sex?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
New to Tinder? Or just not sure how to navigate your way through what to do and not to do on Tinder? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
No worries. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Here\u2019s the Tinder rulebook for you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It may seem super easy, right? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I mean it\u2019s not like Tinder is rocket science but there are things worth knowing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
The truth is, most of us make a mistake on Tinder sooner or later and it\u2019s good to know a few things upfront to avoid it. The Tinder etiquette rulebook, in other words.\u00a0 <\/p>\n\n\n\n
People\nwant to see you. That\u2019s the first thing. Five pictures of your car, cat, or\nhome won\u2019t cut it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
While they want to see you, they don\u2019t want an extreme close-up where they can see your nose hair. If you aren\u2019t artistic enough to tell a good picture from a bad one, get a friend to help you out!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
People want to get a good look at your face from different angles. They want a couple of full-body shots as well to check out your physique and if you can dress. They also want to see what your life is like \u2014 photos that reveal who you are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Shots from your travels, a shot when dressed up for a party, another shot with your friends, a shot of you doing something you like, like cooking, that kind of thing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
They need to decide whether to swipe right or left and to do so, they want to see as much of your personality as possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I would recommend you checking dating profile examples shared by us so that you have got a better idea of what and what not to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yes, it\u2019s an ego boost to see who swiped right on you<\/strong>. I get it. But if you need an ego boost, go see a psychologist, don\u2019t use Tinder. <\/p>\n\n\n\n We\nall swipe right a bit too eagerly at times, carried away, or thinking we should\ngive someone a chance. It happens. Just don\u2019t make a habit out of swiping right\non people who you know you don\u2019t want to meet. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Maybe you want to be sure, before you meet someone, that you have something in common and that the date won\u2019t be a total waste of your time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Fine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n But the truth is, until you meet someone, you won\u2019t know if there\u2019s chemistry. Send a few texts back and forth, but then, if they seem capable of some form of banter, meet up with them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Remember that some people are terrible at texting \u2014 that doesn\u2019t mean they\u2019re terrible in real life. <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n Personally, I have very little patience with people who want to text forever. I\u2019ve just learned that you never know until you meet. So I find it a waste of my time to text someone for weeks on end before meeting up. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I don\u2019t know how many people have asked me questions to which the answer could be found in my profile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I either stop talking to them or reply that they can find the answer in my profile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If they don\u2019t even care enough to read a few sentences about me, why would I care to date them? <\/p>\n\n\n\n People use Tinder for different reasons. Don\u2019t waste your time on people who want something different from you and don\u2019t mislead people. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You have no clue what someone\u2019s going through in their life, so if they\u2019re seeking friendship or a relationship, don\u2019t go out with them a couple of times, bed them and ghost them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s such poor manners. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Someone once did that to me just as my gran was dying. It was really lovely. Not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The easiest way to ensure you get what you want is to put it in your profile. And when you start talking to them, ask them what they want out of Tinder. <\/p>\n\n\n\n A first meeting can end up being great, or horrible. So plan on doing something easy-going that takes about 40 minutes. No three-course meals, in other words. <\/p>\n\n\n\n3. Don\u2019t Get Stuck Online<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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4. Read their Profiles Before You Swipe<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
5. Be Honest & Straightforward <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
6. Don\u2019t Schedule Three Hour Dates<\/h3>\n\n\n\n