On the prowl for a cougar? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I personally love<\/em> the cougars. What I\u2019ve learned over the years is that cougars are dying<\/em> to date younger men – but that most younger men don\u2019t know what they\u2019re doing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cIt\u2019s not that I\u2019m opposed to dating younger guys,\u201d a cougar once told me. \u201cIt\u2019s just that most of them haven\u2019t got a CLUE what to do. It\u2019s a major turn-off.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n See, a lot of young guys assume that cougars would JUMP at the chance to date them because they\u2019re young. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s not that simple.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In this article, I\u2019m going to uncover 15 cougar dating tips that will show you how it\u2019s done. These tips are actionable and can be executed by anyone<\/em> – it doesn\u2019t matter what you look like or what your job is. If you execute, you could ensnare a cougar over the next few weeks, no problem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Yep, there isn\u2019t just one type of cougar. In my experience, there are actually two types:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Your average alpha cougar is a sophisticated, classy woman who\u2019s pretty damn street-smart. She\u2019s intelligent, witty, ambitious, has a good career, and doesn\u2019t need<\/em> a man. Think Sex and the City vibes. She\u2019s very aware of her sexuality, can be dominant if she sees you\u2019re a beta male, and won\u2019t settle for second best. She\u2019s also super confident and cheesy chat-up lines won\u2019t <\/em>work on her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Most young guys will find her intimidating, but there\u2019ll be some who see her as a challenge. Experienced alpha males, on the other hand, will already be on her level and will know how to give her exactly what she wants. <\/p>\n\n\n\n A beta cougar is quite the opposite. She\u2019s feminine and aware of her femininity, but she\u2019s not as independent or sexually empowered as the alpha cougar. She seeks emotional and physical validation from guys (especially young guys!) and wants you to make her feel better about herself. She\u2019s aware of her advancing years and often see\u2019s a young man as someone who she can use to impress her friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And while she\u2019s not an alpha, a beta cougar is often looking for an alpha male who\u2019s going to take charge and impress her with his confidence and his virility. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Now that you know which type of cougar you\u2019re looking for, it\u2019s time to \u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n Can you imagine a 50-year-old lawyer chasing a 21-year-old student? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Buddy, it doesn\u2019t work like that. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Cougars are experienced. They\u2019re mature and they have a lot of self-respect. <\/p>\n\n\n\n They have so much self-respect that they are done<\/em> chasing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n In other words, the chase is all down to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n For some guys, this will be nothing new. They\u2019re at the peak of their powers and, for them, the chase is part of the thrill. In fact, it\u2019s often better than the catch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n For others, this is a concept they\u2019ll need to get used to. Because let me make this clear: A cougar isn\u2019t going to come chasing you when you don\u2019t text for 3-4 days. You might want them to, but they\u2019re not going to waste their time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cI want a man to put the effort in,\u201d a cougar told me after we\u2019d dated. \u201cThat\u2019s what I liked about you. I had a few other guys lined up but I ditched them when I could see you\u2019d made the effort.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n Cougars like to be chased but they have no intention of chasing anyone. They\u2019ve often got busy, fulfilling lives – heck, some of them even have kids! If you don\u2019t text back for a few days it\u2019s NOT going to ruin them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Be honest: How many times have you arranged a date with a girl in the past \u2026 only to cancel or rearrange it because something better came up? <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cHey! I\u2019m really sorry to have to do this but I\u2019ve gotta work late tomorrow. Can we rearrange for some other time?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Maybe you\u2019ve grown used to doing this because girls are always so eager to see you that they\u2019re happy to rearrange:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cSure! When\u2019s good for you?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Cougars, however, are different and you have to treat them differently. They\u2019re the Rolls Royce of the dating world and you don\u2019t <\/em>keep them waiting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If it turns out that you\u2019re busy and can\u2019t make the date, fine. But don\u2019t expect them to give you a second chance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n However, if you\u2019re getting stoned with friends instead, or if you\u2019ve decided to make a date with someone \u201cbetter,\u201d there really is no coming back from that. If you\u2019re serious about dating cougars, you better make them your priority<\/em>. It doesn\u2019t matter if it\u2019s the first date, you need to show up on time and you mustn\u2019t mess them around. They\u2019re too experienced for that shit! They deserve better.<\/p>\n\n\n\n One of the reasons a cougar might be attracted to a younger man in the first place is because she\u2019s not getting enough attention from guys her age.<\/p>\n\n\n\n See, guys have this thing whereby the older they get, the less attention they pay to the woman in their life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If an older woman is yearning to feel desirable again, be the one to make her feel desirable again. Don\u2019t do what the other guys her age do – don\u2019t be cynical and morose about life. Don\u2019t ignore what makes her so sexy. Compliment her and make her feel good. <\/p>\n\n\n\n15 Tips For Dating an Older Woman:<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
1. First, Decide Which Type Of Cougar You Want To Date <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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2. Understand That You Will Need To Do Some Chasing <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
3. Don\u2019t Mess Cougars Around <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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5. Make Foreplay Online <\/h3>\n\n\n\n