{"id":6269,"date":"2023-08-09T07:59:19","date_gmt":"2023-08-09T07:59:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datingxp.co\/?p=6269"},"modified":"2023-08-13T09:21:42","modified_gmt":"2023-08-13T09:21:42","slug":"how-to-hookup-with-a-cougar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/datingxp.co\/how-to-hookup-with-a-cougar\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Hookup With a Cougar: (In 5 Simple Steps)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Cougars are classy, experienced women who don\u2019t <\/em>play games. Therefore, they can be pretty tough to hookup with. If you want to hookup with a cougar, you MUST know what you\u2019re doing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fortunately, many rules of dating once understood, will help you land pretty much any woman you want<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s the same with hooking up with cougars. It doesn\u2019t matter where you\u2019re from or what you look like, as long as you do the right things you CAN hookup with a cougar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In this article, I\u2019m going to show you how to hook up with a cougar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5 Simple Steps to Hookup with a Cougar<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

1. Sign-up For Cougar Dating Apps\/Sites<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

When it comes to having cougar hookups, the first thing you should do is use cougar dating apps<\/a>. There are lots to choose from and some work better than others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The easy option seems to be Tinder. It\u2019s free, it was originally created as a dating app for casual hookups<\/a> and therefore still a lot of people use it for the same purpose. you can tweak your searches so that only cougars show up.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The problem with using Tinder<\/em><\/strong> is that the cougar must tweak their<\/em> age range in their settings so that you show up for them. And because most cougars possibly<\/em> won\u2019t look for men that are younger than 35, you might be wasting your time. This is because you can\u2019t message anyone on Tinder until they\u2019ve matched with you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A much better option is to use a dating app that doesn\u2019t set restrictions on who you can message. POF, for example, allows you to search for anyone and everyone of any age range. And because you don\u2019t have to match with a cougar before you can message them, it\u2019s ideal for finding cougars. Plus, POF has a reputation for being great for hookups. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You could also give OKCupid a go, too. It\u2019s more of a long shot than POF but – like POF – it\u2019s free to send messages. However, like Tinder, you can\u2019t send messages to women until they\u2019ve matched with you first. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A third option is AdultFriendFinder. I\u2019m a big fan of AFF, and there are thousands of cougars on this site who are ALL looking for hookups. It\u2019s really easy to get chatting with older women! The only snag is that AFF is a premium dating app that requires a fee. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Another option you\u2019ve got is CougarLife<\/a> which is – as you\u2019ve probably guessed – aimed at cougars who are looking to date\/hookup with younger men. Like AFF, though, you have to pay in order to send messages.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whichever site you sign up to, I highly recommend that you make it known in your profile what you\u2019re looking for. This will certainly help you land more dates on apps like Tinder and OkCupid. Be straight, be direct, and let the women know that a) you want a cougar and b) you want to hookup. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Sign-up For CougarLife<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

2. Visit Nearby Martini Bars <\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Away from dating apps, there are a few places in the real world where you can go to land a hook up with older women. Perhaps the most obvious of these is a martini bar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A martini bar is a sophisticated setting where mature men and women go at night. These places can be kind of expensive, but they\u2019re super classy. They\u2019re typically avoided by the younger crowd, which means you\u2019ll have a wide array of older women to pick from. Plus, you might even be the youngest guy in there – which is great if you\u2019re looking for a cougar! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because martini bars are classy and laidback, you\u2019ll need to wear your smartest clothes. Wear your best shoes, dab yourself in cologne before heading out, and take a wingman along with you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It shouldn\u2019t be too hard to find a martini bar in your local area. Just use Google to find one. All you need to search for is either a \u201cmartini bar near me\u201d or a \u201cwine bar near me.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Offer To Buy a Cougar and Her Friend a Drink <\/h3>\n\n\n\n

When you make your initial approach to a cougar, don\u2019t get caught up in too much small talk too quickly. The smartest thing to do is to introduce yourself (and your friend) before moving swiftly onto drinks. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

In other words, you\u2019ll want to ask the cougar you\u2019re talking to if she and her friend would like a drink. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s really important, by the way, that you involve her friend in the conversation. If you ignore her friend, she\u2019ll just think you\u2019re really rude and you won\u2019t have any luck. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And if she says she doesn\u2019t want a drink? Just move on to the next one. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That said, you might be faced with a situation where the cougar is clearly into you but her friend is cock blocking you. This happens often – but don\u2019t give up. Make your intentions known but don\u2019t leave the friend out. If her friend feels as though the two of you are going to ignore her for the rest of the night, she will do what she can to stop you from talking to the cougar! So be polite and respectful to her and keep her on your side. Pay her<\/em> a compliment, too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Go To a Club <\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Clubs are great places to find hookups because you get to dance up close and personal with women on the dance floor while flaunting your sexual prowess. With sexy music pumping through their bodies and alcohol making them horny, cougars are hot and ready for you to come along and gyrate with them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you go to a club with the intention of hooking up with a cougar, just make sure it\u2019s a club that older women frequent. There are plenty of these in big cities, although from experience cougars tend to prefer Latino-inspired clubs. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once there, you need to show confidence, you need to be a willing dancer, and you need to be ready to flirt like a maniac on the dance floor. Whisper things in her ear, get up close to her, and – when the time is right – go in for the kiss. She needs to know as soon as possible what your intentions are.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Whatever You Do \u2026 Don\u2019t Mention Her Age <\/h3>\n\n\n\n

There are, of course, things you should <\/em>say to a cougar that you\u2019re hoping to hook up with. But there are also things you shouldn\u2019t <\/em>say. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And one thing you must NEVER do is mention her age. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cougars know how old they are. Some of them know they look good for their age! But they don\u2019t need you to bring attention to it. If you do, you will instantly kill the attraction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

See, whilst you might think you\u2019re being nice by saying things like, \u201cYou look great for your age,\u201d or \u201cYou literally have no wrinkles,\u201d you\u2019re not flattering her – you\u2019re just annoying her.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

With the traditional method, finding a cougar to hook up with takes time, and you\u2019ll need patience. Just make sure to be confident, to be direct, and – if you go to a martini bar – to be classy, smart, and flirty. We've also shared tips on dating older women<\/a>, you should definitely learn a few tips from there.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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