Sexting has always been a fun addition to any relationship. Not only can it spice things up, but it can also break down mental barriers to allow you and your sexting partner to have a better sex life and get closer…and not just in the sheets. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
According to a study published in the journal Cyberpsychology, Behavior and Social Networking, <\/em>couples that sext reported higher satisfaction in their relationships.<\/a> This is due to the fact that sexting allows couples to open up and be vulnerable with each other while exploring fantasies they may not have shared with each other before. Sexting can be like a tell-all for couples that allows for new experiences and a deeper understanding of each other\u2019s needs and desires. <\/p>\n\n\n\n But, if you\u2019ve never actually sexted, it can be intimidating to just jump in head-first. You may become nervous about your ability to \u201cbe sexy\u201d or the reaction your partner will have to you sending a flirty text that reads, \u201cI want you inside of me.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Let\u2019s face it though, who wouldn\u2019t want to receive a steamy hot text from someone they\u2019re into? As humans, we love the emotional affirmation that we are total babes because it builds our confidence and allows us to open up sexually with our lovers. <\/p>\n\n\n\n However, if you don\u2019t know where to start, don\u2019t sweat it; we are here to help. Check out our tips below on how to become a master at the sexting game. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Just like any other sexual activity, when initiating sexting you need to have consent. We\u2019ve all heard the horror stories of unsolicited dick pics and, frankly, eww, let\u2019s not do that anymore. It\u2019s important to make sure the person you are sexting is actually comfortable with it and enjoying it too. Because if they\u2019re not, then what\u2019s the point?<\/p>\n\n\n\n You may think consent is not sexy because you feel that it takes the surprise and excitement out of a hot text or nude selfie, but being straight-forward and making your intentions clear is actually one of the sexiest things you can do. When you\u2019re direct and open about sexual topics, you exhume confidence, which is super hot. They say if you can\u2019t talk about sex, then you shouldn\u2019t be doing it. The same goes for sexting. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Timing is everything. You never want to send a steamy sext when you know your partner is busy with something important. For example, if your partner is visiting their grandmother in the hospital, it\u2019s probably best to wait a few hours before sending that sext that says, \u201cI\u2019m thinking about your body on top of mine…wish you were here.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Timing is not only vital for your partner\u2019s sake, but also for yours. Emotions may heighten and you might start to question the stability of your relationship if you are waiting on a text back from your partner. If you are looking to start a sexting-sesh, reach out first with a, \u201cHey, are you busy?<\/strong>\u201d before jumping into the dirty deed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Confidence is always sexy, especially when it comes to sexting. Being shy and quiet will get you nowhere in the world of sexting. If you\u2019re naturally timid, start out slow to get into the flow of things and then expand on your sexting game from there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Exhume confidence by being straightforward, focusing on your pleasure, as well as theirs, and taking control of the conversation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n A benefit of sexting is finding out what turns on your partner and angling your texts to that turn-on. This will reel them in fast and make you feel confident throughout your conversation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Discovering their turn-ons can be a super fun conversation to have, not only are you learning about their desires, but you\u2019re also showing your interest in fulfilling them for your partner. What\u2019s sexier than that?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sexting Example:<\/strong> “Is there anything you would like me to serve tonight on our bed other than our usual?”<\/p>\n\n\n\n A key part of sexting is to be creative. It\u2019s so easy to type, \u201cI want your cock<\/strong>,\u201d but it\u2019s much more interesting and exciting to receive a text that says something like, \u201cI want you to feel my breath on your neck as I run my fingers up your thighs.<\/strong>\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n Creative wordplay is a major turn-on when it comes to sexting. You want your partner to really imagine the situation because that is what is going to turn them on the most. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sexting Example:<\/strong> “My bed is so lonely without you. Come snuggle up next to me so I can feel you inside me.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n As humans, there\u2019s no denying that we all have sexual fantasies. Some of our fantasies may be a bit wilder than others. For example, being on top vs. sex with your BFF\u2019s mom while her dad is in the other room. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Whatever your fantasies are, talk about them with your partner! Sharing your innermost desires can be easier to do over the screen and it can open up the conversation for trying them when you\u2019re actually in person together. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sexting Example:<\/strong> “I want you to tease me till I beg you to fuck me and then fuck me till I beg you to stop.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n To personalize your sexting experience, talk about a steamy memory you and your partner have with each other. For example, maybe you had sex in a public place when there was a chance of getting caught. That high-energy memory is perfect to include in a sexy conversation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you don\u2019t have any crazy memories with each other yet, that\u2019s ok. You could talk about a memory you have and shape it to work to your advantage by saying something like, \u201cRemember that time we were chatting in your car all night?… I wish I had just jumped you then!<\/strong>\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n Just like with sex, foreplay via sexting helps to build up the sexual tension<\/a> and make the end result even more banging. It\u2019s important to take it slow by starting with some light-hearted flirting. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Amp the conversation up with sexy pics like a quick cleavage pic or a classic legs in a bubble bath pic (just be sure not to drop your phone in the bubbles!). Photos like these mixed with a little back-and-forth flirting will create some major fireworks between you and your partner. They\u2019ll be on the edge of their seat waiting to see what you\u2019ll send next. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sexting Example:<\/strong> “Mr. [Name], your penis has an appointment with my mouth, we request you to please cum immediately.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n We all like being teased when we are fooling around in the sack. And, it\u2019s just as fun to tease our partners as well. Sexting is no different. Teasing helps to heat up the conversation and get the blood flowing where it counts. <\/p>\n\n\n\n To tease while sexting, make sure not to give everything away all at once because then, whoops<\/em>, the game is done. Hope you had fun playing! No, the trick is to make it last and really get into it by asking questions, sending photos, and making them beg for more. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sexting Example:<\/strong> “I'm wearing nothing but contact lenses.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you aren\u2019t much of a smooth-talker, that\u2019s ok. Sexting takes practice. However, in the meantime, feel free to utilize the emoji keyboard. This can be a super fun way to engage in the conversation without feeling too much pressure to perform.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Of course, you can\u2019t totally rely on emojis to get you through a sexting conversation, but when you\u2019re at a loss, it\u2019s easy to combine a couple of symbols to get your point across. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sexting Example:<\/strong> Your \ud83c\udf51 + My \ud83c\udf46 = We \ud83d\udca6<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hottest Sexting Emojis<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n Of course, it\u2019s important to be comfortable with what you\u2019re sexting. However, pushing yourself in a healthy way can have a lot of great benefits.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Challenging yourself to step outside your comfort zone can help you to discover new turn-ons and allow you to share desires with your partner that you may never have, which will only help you to get closer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sexting Example:<\/strong> “Your cock, my mouth, right now!”<\/p>\n\n\n\n One of the biggest challenges of sexting is to keep the conversation going. One genius way to do this is through the use of questions. Asking questions such as, \u201cWhat would you do to me?<\/strong>\u201d and \u201cHow do you want me to touch you?<\/strong>\u201d are a couple of examples of ways to keep that sext-sesh flowing forward.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s also fun to be a bit more specific with your questions. Or perhaps ask questions about certain interests or desires. Not only will this avoid a halt in conversation, but it will keep the discussion interesting, sexy, and engaging. Plus, you may even learn something new about your partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The more specific you can be with your sexts, the better. No one wants to read the same boring sext over and over. After a while, your partner will dread getting that, \u201cI wish you were here,<\/strong>\u201d text. <\/p>\n\n\n\n To switch it up and keep them enticed, try telling your partner exactly what you want and how it will make you feel. This will allow them to really imagine the situation you\u2019re describing and they\u2019ll be totally on board with jumping in with their own details. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you fully trust the person you are sexting, photos can be a fun way to take sexting to the next level. It can give your partner the sneak-peek they need to get off…if you know what we mean. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Of course, these don\u2019t have to be fully nude photos. A nude selfie is nice, but there are many other photos you can send that will still entice your partner. A sexy selfie featuring a low-cut shirt or a flirty smile can be all you need to set the tone for the conversation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Now that you have played around with sexts and photos, it\u2019s time to include audio files. The power of voice messages is REAL and makes sexting experience much more intense. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Audio files can include the sound of you getting into the shower, saying something sexy, or even just simply breathing. This combined with photos and texts will help to appeal to all of your partner\u2019s senses and make the experience more tangible for them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you are into roleplaying, please know that it can be done over text too. This is especially fun for couples who have been together for a while and are looking to spice things up a little. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It doesn\u2019t have to be anything crazy like playing a damsel in distress and a night in shining armor, it could just simply be a stranger situation or a professor and student dynamic. Do whatever turns you on!<\/p>\n\n\n\n The back-and-forth while sexting is super important. You don\u2019t want to dominate the conversation, but rather have a healthy balance of turn-taking. This ensures that your partner is benefitting from the conversation, as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Turn-taking gives you time to gauge their reaction and engagement in the conversation. You don\u2019t want to bore them or feel like a nuisance. The experience should be fun on both ends. If the reactions you are getting aren\u2019t what you hoped for, try switching up your style and trying something new, or ask them what they would like to do. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Not everyone is comfortable with dirty talk, and that\u2019s ok. But, if you are then definitely incorporate it into your sexts. Saying dirty things to your partner can be freeing and make you feel like a total sex kitten. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Plus, there\u2019s no doubt your partner will love to sneak a peek at your naughty side. Just be sure to use vocabulary you\u2019re comfortable with. You don\u2019t want to force anything. The dirty talk should be fun for both parties. <\/p>\n\n\n\n23 Tips to Learn How to Sext<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
1. Always Get Consent \ud83d\udc95<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
2. Pick the Right Time \ud83d\udd70 <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
3. Be Confident \ud83d\udc69\u200d\u2708\ufe0f <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
4. Discover What Turns Them On \ud83d\ude0f<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
5. Get Creative With Your Sexts \ud83d\udc81\ud83c\udffe<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
6. Talk About Your Fantasies \ud83d\udc40<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
7. Talk About Your Memories \ud83d\udecc <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
8. Sexting Foreplay is a Thing \ud83e\udd7a<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
9. Tease Them Until They Explode \ud83e\udd2f<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
10. Make use of Sexting Emojis & Combinations \ud83d\udca6 <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
11. Don\u2019t Play Too Safe \ud83e\udd71<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
12. Ask Them Naughty Questions \ud83d\ude36\u200d\ud83c\udf2b\ufe0f<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
13. Don't Repeat The Same Sext Messages \ud83d\udca9<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
14. Send Photos \ud83d\ude08<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
15. Send Naughty Voice Notes \ud83c\udfb6 <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
16. You Can Try Roleplaying \ud83e\udd76<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
17. Take Turns \ud83e\udd75<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
18. Talk Dirty \ud83e\udd10<\/h3>\n\n\n\n