We get it. Fuck boys are sexy, charismatic, and, generally, they\u2019re good in bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Plus, they\u2019re more mysterious than a \u201cnice guy\u201d which is part of what makes them so attractive in the first place. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
But fuck boys are called fuck boys for a reason.<\/a> And given enough time, they will reel you in, cause you to become infatuated with them, and maybe they\u2019ll even make you fall in love with them – before breaking your heart. <\/p>\n\n\n\n We\u2019ve seen it happen way too often to girls who deserve better. But while that part of the story is often predictable and 100%, not your fault, what happens next is different. Most girls find it hard to get over a fuck boy because, despite their label, fuck boys are surprisingly loveable. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you\u2019ve given your heart to a fuck boy and need to get over him fast, come join me as I share with you tips on how to do just that. <\/p>\n\n\n\n By the end of the article, you will be ready to move on to a guy who respects you, and who loves you for who you are. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Acceptance is the number one thing that will help you get over a fuck boy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Why? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Because acceptance is something we can all practice, and it\u2019s also something we have complete control over. <\/p>\n\n\n\n When you accept things are over and that the man you loved\/really liked wasn\u2019t who he said he was, you are taking back control of your thoughts and your life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Naturally, acceptance isn\u2019t easy to come by. But here are some pointers:<\/p>\n\n\n\n See him for who he really is and not who you thought he was. Focus on the negative stuff and forget about any idealized vision you had of him<\/p>\n\n\n\n Don\u2019t take this personally. He is a fuck boy who has surely done this to many other women before <\/p>\n\n\n\n Do this for yourself. If you continue to dwell on the fuck boy, you will only cause yourself further stress and thus prevent yourself from moving on with your life <\/p>\n\n\n\n There\u2019s a famous saying that time is a great healer. And it\u2019s a famous saying for a reason – because it\u2019s entirely true. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Getting over a fuck boy will take time. But just everything else, the pain you\u2019re feeling now will eventually pass. While today might seem like the end of the world, and while the fuck boy might be constantly on your mind, in a year\u2019s time all your current worries will seem so trivial. <\/p>\n\n\n\n How come? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Because by then you will have moved on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Just think back to the past and all the things that have bothered you before. While you might still remember them, they\u2019re now just a thing of the past. What once caused you pain years ago doesn\u2019t anymore. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Time will pass and the pain you feel will subside. In the meantime, try not to stress yourself out too much. Just know that things will change. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Returning to dating apps<\/a> after we\u2019ve been rejected isn\u2019t easy. We don\u2019t want to date anyone else – we still want him<\/em>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n But one of the best ways to get him out of your head is to start chatting with other cool guys. <\/p>\n\n\n\n And look, there\u2019s zero pressure on you to date someone else here. At this point, all you need to do is create an account, add a few pics to your profile – and start chatting with people. Pretty soon, you\u2019ll be having a laugh with other guys online and this alone will a) make you feel better and b) help you get over a fuck boy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n There are all kinds of different dating apps you can use, too, including Tinder (great for finding short-term relationships and friends), OKCupid (ideal for those who are more open-minded), and Match (perfect if you\u2019re looking for something longer-term). <\/p>\n\n\n\n If the fuck boy chooses to get in touch with you, that\u2019s his choice. You can\u2019t really control that (well, you could<\/em> if you blocked him). But what you can control is whether or not you<\/em> contact him<\/em>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Contacting the fuck boy isn\u2019t a good idea because it will prevent you from moving on. All it does is give you a false sense of hope and comfort but doesn\u2019t solve anything. It just re-establishes a link with him and keeps him in your mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And because you might be tempted to contact him and ask how his day was etc, the best thing to do is to take it out of your hands by deleting his number off your phone. That way, you can\u2019t get in touch with him even if you wanted to. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If he does get in touch with you and asks to see you again – say \u2018No\u2019 to him. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Yes, saying \u2018No\u2019 to a guy we really like is difficult because we worry that we might regret it. After all, what if he\u2019s changed? <\/p>\n\n\n\n But here\u2019s the thing – fuck boys don\u2019t change. If you say Yes to him, it will only lead to more heartache. <\/p>\n\n\n\n So put your foot down and let him know where you stand. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Nothing helps to relieve stress and block him out of your mind than a good old night out with the girls! A ladies' night out helps you to recharge your batteries and it gives you a chance to let your hair down and have some FUN. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Before you know it, you\u2019ll be having a fabulous time that reminds you that not much else matters when you have amazing friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So call your girls up, get them together, and go out and have some cocktails. Go dancing, and don\u2019t even think about meeting guys. Sure, you might meet someone, but who cares! The main thing is that you remember what it\u2019s like to have fun. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Social media has its pros, but it also has its cons. <\/p>\n\n\n\n And when you\u2019re trying to get over a fuck boy, the last<\/em> thing you need is to see his status where he tells the world how much he\u2019s loving life right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Or the photos of him with his arm around another girl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Or those flirty comments from Tina, a girl you\u2019ve always been suspicious of. <\/p>\n\n\n\n So if you want to get over a fuck boy, now is the time to delete – and maybe even block – him from ALL your social media. <\/p>\n\n\n\n No man is perfect. <\/p>\n\n\n\n But a fuck buddy is far<\/em> from perfect. <\/p>\n\n\n\n When we\u2019re experiencing rejection or a full-on breakup, it\u2019s very easy to get hung up on the other person's qualities. We remember their smile, their laugh, and that cute thing they do with their hair. <\/p>\n\n\n\n We forget, of course, to remind ourselves of all the bad stuff. Such as the way they sleep around, won\u2019t commit, or the way they always leave their hair in the shower. <\/p>\n\n\n\n When you\u2019re getting over a fuck buddy, it\u2019s really important that you remember his flaws. Yes, he may have been cute but the two of you would never have worked. Remember that. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s very hard to get over anyone, let alone a fuck boy if we mope around the house wearing our slacks and feeling very sorry for ourselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So what should you do about this? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Look your best. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Look hot<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Get dressed up and show the world and the fuck boy what they\u2019re all missing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dressing up will restore your confidence and remind you that you don\u2019t need the fuck boy. You can have whatever man you deserve because you look good and you feel good. Lastly, when you\u2019ve done all of the above, why not treat yourself to a Netflix binge? <\/p>\n\n\n\nhere are 10 ways to heal after a fuckboy breaks your heart<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
1. Practice Acceptance <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
2. Give Yourself Time <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
3. Get Back On Dating Apps <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
4. Delete His Number <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
5. Say \u201cNo\u201d To Him<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
6. Have a Ladies' Night Out <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
7. Delete Him Off Your Social Media <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
8. Remember His Flaws<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
9. Look Your Best<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
And you are<\/em> good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n10. Binge On Netflix <\/h3>\n\n\n\n