{"id":8190,"date":"2023-08-19T11:53:08","date_gmt":"2023-08-19T11:53:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datingxp.co\/?p=8190"},"modified":"2023-08-17T03:47:01","modified_gmt":"2023-08-17T03:47:01","slug":"questions-for-a-new-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/datingxp.co\/questions-for-a-new-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"21 Deep Questions For a New Relationship To Get To Know Your Partner"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>New relationships can be fun, exciting, and challenging all at the same time. And one of the most fun aspects of a new relationship is <em><strong>learning about the other person<\/strong><\/em>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Questions give you the chance to better know who you\u2019re dating. They allow you to peel back the layers bit by layer, and they show you how compatible (or incompatible) the two of you are in terms of things like sex, family, and goals. They can give you insights into the other person\u2019s sense of humor, what their outlook on life, in general, is, as well as what their hopes and plans are for the future.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That said, what\u2019s key is knowing WHAT questions to ask. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s only by asking the right questions that you will not only be able to get a conversation going, but you will also know whether or not this relationship truly is the right thing for you at this point in your life.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In this article, I\u2019ll be taking a look at 21 questions for a new relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ll also be adding a bit of commentary next to each question to explain why you should ask it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But, before sharing some new relationship questions, let's discuss some&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\" style=\"font-size:18px\"><strong>Do\u2019s and Don\u2019ts&nbsp;of Early Relationship Questions<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>All new relationships take time before they really take off. You might be feeling nervous and not sure about what you should and shouldn\u2019t do. Maybe you want to express yourself but don\u2019t want to come on too strong too soon.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Here are some new relationship do\u2019s and don\u2019ts:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"has-normal-font-size wp-block-heading\">Do\u2019s&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Show affection<\/strong> &#8211; If you don\u2019t show affection, no matter how early into a new relationship, your partner might think you don\u2019t like them enough&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Be realistic <\/strong>&#8211; Don\u2019t expect everything to fall into place straight away. Be realistic with your expectations for now<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Be patient <\/strong>&#8211; Take your time. Don\u2019t rush things, as this will just scare them off<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Retain your independence <\/strong>&#8211; Yes, you\u2019re now a couple. But it\u2019s super important that you don't sacrifice your independence&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"has-normal-font-size wp-block-heading\">Don\u2019ts<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Be needy <\/strong>&#8211; No one likes a needy person who \u201ccan\u2019t live without\u201d their partner, especially in a new relationship. Key to not being needy is retaining your independence and sense of self<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Talk about the future <\/strong>&#8211; You can ask questions related to their future, but don\u2019t start planning a future together just yet. It\u2019s too soon!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Be close-minded <\/strong>&#8211; Your partner will have ideas and views that are different from yours. Use questions to discover what these are, but make sure you retain an open mind about them<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">21 Questions For A New Relationship<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">1. <strong>Do you have a five-year plan?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s important to ask if you want a serious relationship. Ask them if they have a five-year plan and see if it aligns with yours. If it doesn\u2019t, now might be the best time to reconsider things.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">2. <strong>What\u2019s your biggest priority right now?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Finding out where their priorities lie helps you learn more about their lifestyle, including what they\u2019ll be spending most of their time doing right now.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">3. <strong>Who\u2019s the most important person in your life?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I like this question because it\u2019s just a great way of learning more about their world, including their friends and family.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">4. <strong>What are 5 things you can\u2019t live without?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s a simple question but a fantastic conversation starter that will show you where their core interests lie &#8211; as well as whether or not they\u2019re super materialistic.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">5. <strong>What was your longest relationship?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I find it helps to ask this question if you <em>don\u2019t<\/em> want to date a commitment-phobe.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">6. <strong>Do you want children?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If this question is important to you, it\u2019s essential that you get it out of the way as soon as possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">7. <strong>What\u2019s your biggest fear?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Talking about our mutual fears is just a great way to bond. Make sure to share yours too, though!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">8. <strong>Do politics matter to you?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I only suggest asking this question if you have big opinions on politics. If you do, find out whether politics could prove a stumbling block in your new relationship.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">9. <strong>What\u2019s your biggest dealbreaker?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Getting this question out of the way as soon as possible ensures you don\u2019t get too far into the relationship before realizing the two of you aren\u2019t compatible.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">10. <strong>How long does it take you to feel truly comfortable with someone?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This question lets you know what you\u2019re getting into in terms of how long it\u2019s going to take them to truly accept this relationship.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">11. <strong>Have you enjoyed being single?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Their answer will give you huge insights into where their mindset is right now, including whether or not they\u2019re really ready for a relationship.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">12. <strong>What\u2019s the best way for you to relax?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Finding out how they like to wind down will help the two of you sync whenever you\u2019ve both had a long day and just need to chill.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">13. <strong>How important is work to you?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you have strong opinions on work\/careers, this is a cool question to ask. Because while some people can take or leave work, others make it a priority.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">14. <strong>What\u2019s your biggest turn-off?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This question will help your new relationship because it will prevent you from doing precisely the thing that turns them off.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">15. <strong>Are you family-oriented?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If family means a lot to you, this is an important question to ask as soon as possible.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">16. <strong>What does money mean to you?<em>&nbsp;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They call money a necessary evil, and it\u2019s one of the biggest reasons couples break up. Learn about how your partner feels about money with this question.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">17. <strong>What\u2019s your best quality?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s nothing better than hearing someone talk themselves up! Give them the chance to speak about the things they love about themselves.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">18. <strong>What\u2019s your worst quality?<em>&nbsp;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Honesty is so important in any relationship, so use this question to get them to open up about themselves to you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">19. <strong>What would cause you to end a friendship?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This question gives you huge insights into their values.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">20. <strong>Do you get angry easily?<em>&nbsp;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No one really wants to date someone who flips out at the slightest thing. If you\u2019ve been in a volatile relationship in the past, this is a good question to ask.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">21. <strong>What brings meaning to your life?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lastly, when you want to get <em>really<\/em> deep with your new partner, this is a good question to ask. They\u2019ll need time to answer it, of course, but sharing what makes their life tick will bring the two of you closer together.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These are the best relationship questions for new couples to spark intimacy.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>New relationships can be fun, exciting, and challenging all at the same time. 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