The good news is that I can promise you this: Finding MILFs is easier than you think. Just like you, hot older women want sex. They\u2019re out there; they\u2019re available – they\u2019re just waiting to be found. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
In this article, I\u2019m going to take a look at how to find MILFs. I\u2019ll be showing you the places they hang out, and I\u2019ll also be showing you what you need to do to land a date with one \u2026 and potentially take one to bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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7 Places to Find Milfs Near You<\/h2>\n\n\n\n1. Try MILF Dating Sites\u00a0<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Milf dating sites<\/a> are the easiest way to find MILFs because all you need to do is create an account and start searching through the hundreds and perhaps even\u00a0thousands<\/em>\u00a0of MILF profiles in your area.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n That said, you\u2019ll need to sign up for the right sites:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Let\u2019s take a quick look at both sites.<\/p>\n\n\n\n AdultFriendFinder is your best bet if you want to find locals MILF as soon as possible. It\u2019s a hookup site where nudity is allowed and where many women sign up to sleep with younger men just like you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Registration is free, but you\u2019ll need to upgrade your account to send messages. I suggest you be as direct\/forward as possible because this is precisely what women on here appreciate. These MILFs aren\u2019t here to be romanced – they either want a fuck buddy<\/a> or a one night stand. And they\u2019re ready to talk as dirty as you want. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You can also use this milf dating site to have video sex\/phone sex with single older women as there are in-built cam-sharing functionalities. <\/p>\n\n\n\n EliteSingles is used by MILFs who are looking for something serious, such as either a long-term, committed relationship or even marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n However, there\u2019s a catch: The older women that use this dating site are educated, ambitious professionals looking for educated, ambitious young<\/em> male professionals. As such, if you want to succeed here, you\u2019ll probably need to possess a university degree and have a solid career. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Elite Singles is free to register with, but you will need to upgrade your account to send and receive messages. Elite Single is not the best option for younger guys if they are not looking for a long-term relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Yes, it is fair to assume that only younger women go to bars or clubs. However, it\u2019s common knowledge that MILFs visit bars and clubs, especially at the weekend when they want to let their hair down after work and get picked up by attractive younger guys. <\/p>\n\n\n\n But what kind of bars and clubs? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Obviously, MILFs don\u2019t frequent student clubs or \u201cfrat bars.\u201d You won\u2019t find them in bars where drinks are offered at a discount price to attract more students, too. Instead, you need to think about the music a MILF grew up listening to. What did she party to in her<\/em> youth? <\/p>\n\n\n\n I can think of a few genres:<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you can find bars and clubs specializing in this type of music, it\u2019s a good idea to find out the dress code and head there. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you can, try to find Latin-themed salsa nights in your area, too, as these tend to be massive hotspots for MILFs who love nothing more than to grind against a non-disabled man to some Spanish music. These types of nights tend to take place during the week, and they\u2019re popular with the over 40\u2019s crowd. To succeed in a place like this, it\u2019s a given that you need to be able to dance salsa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You could also try bars that specialize in selling cocktails. I can think of a few of these near me, and I know for sure that MILFs enjoy going there with their female friends. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Essentially, when wondering which bars and clubs near you are the best for MILFs, consider a few things: <\/p>\n\n\n\n While MILFs aren\u2019t always absolutely loaded with money, they will typically avoid cheap bars and head to joints that sell pricier drinks. Instead, think \u201cclassy, sophisticated, and mature\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And if you can, avoid the student areas altogether. These are the last<\/em> places a MILF will be hanging out. <\/p>\n\n\n\n The thing with MILFs is that they\u2019re typically career-driven, professional, educated, and smart women who have done quite well in life. Either they\u2019ve made their own money through hard work, or they\u2019ve gone through a divorce and are now enjoying alimony. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Either way, the best place to find a smoking hot, classy MILF is not<\/em> a downtrodden working-class area. Instead, it\u2019s a middle or upper-class residential neighborhood where the gardens are neat and tidy, the bars and restaurants are upscale, and MILFs can enjoy a fashionable lifestyle that suits where they are in life right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So, if you don\u2019t already live in a middle\/upper-class residential neighborhood yourself, the good news is that – no – you don\u2019t need to go and buy or rent a house right this moment. But it\u2019s a smart idea to grab a cab, book a hotel – and stay there for a few days. Get familiar with the surroundings, visit the parks, the bars, and the restaurants, and get yourself seen and known among the locals. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You will also need to dress smartly so that you fit in and learn the lingo and etiquette of middle and upper-class neighborhoods. If you don\u2019t have a good car, don\u2019t drive there – always take a cab instead. The last thing you want is to be detected as someone who doesn\u2019t belong in a place like this. If a MILF spots that you\u2019re a phony, she will call you out. <\/p>\n\n\n\n What do a single beautiful woman like to do on the weekend when summer is in full swing, and the sun is shining? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Beach!<\/p>\n\n\n\n Indeed, if you go to a packed beach at any point during a sunny summer, it\u2019s highly<\/em> likely that you\u2019ll spot a few MILFs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And the good thing about a beach is that, unlike a bar or a club, you can often find a MILF by yourself. She\u2019ll be soaking up the sun, getting a tan, reading a book – and just generally chilling, hoping that a hot young suitor walks up to her and asks her out. <\/p>\n\n\n\n The second good thing about a beach is that it gives you a chance to show off your honed physique (if you have one). Unlike in a bar or a club, you don\u2019t need to worry about strolling around a beach topless. You could also ask a MILF if she\u2019d like to go for a dip in the sea with you, build a sandcastle with you – and roll around and frolic under the sun. Indeed, a beach is a<\/em> perfect place to enchant a MILF and make her fall for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Of course, there are rules. A MIFL will generally play hard to get. If she\u2019s reading her book and isn\u2019t giving you much attention at first, it doesn\u2019t mean she isn\u2019t interested. She\u2019s challenging you to be brave enough to persist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n On the other hand, if it\u2019s clear<\/em> that she is here to relax by herself, you should back off. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Pro tip: Try to find a MILF who\u2019s reading a romance book at the beach. The book will already have put ideas in her head that a Prince will come along today and sweep her off her feet! <\/p>\n\n\n\n If there\u2019s one thing a MILF loves<\/em> to do, it\u2019s SHOP.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And where better to find a shopping gal than at a mall? <\/p>\n\n\n\n It doesn\u2019t matter whether you head to a mall on a weekday or at the weekend; there will always be MILFs waltzing around in heels, shopping for clothes, accessories, and make-up. <\/p>\n\n\n\n And it\u2019s your job to pop over there and – in a very non-sleazy way – make your approach.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Indeed, the best shops to look for MILFs include clothes shops, shoe shops, and cosmetic shops. It won't be easy to stay too long in a cosmetic shop as a dude, so your best option is to try clothes stores.<\/p>\n\n\n\n However, you will find MILFs are passing in and out of shops all the time and walking through the mall, so you\u2019ve got plenty of options. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Since you\u2019re at the mall yourself, you must dress to impress since you\u2019ll be checking out clothes stores. So wear something stylish, and take your time when strolling around the mall. Don\u2019t appear to be in a hurry. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Also, when you go for the approach, remember that you\u2019re not at a bar. A MILF isn\u2019t at a mall to get picked up – she\u2019s here to buy something. As such, she may be in a hurry. So while she\u2019ll be flattered by your approach, she won\u2019t want to hang around too long (unless she\u2019s not<\/em> in a hurry). As such, you\u2019ll need to be direct and relatively quick with how to get in and get out. <\/p>\n\n\n\n A grocery store might seem like an unusual place to meet women. But when it comes to finding MILFs, they\u2019re not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Why? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Think about it. MILFs are hot, older women who are – in your case anyway – single. They live by themselves, they\u2019ve probably got their own house and car, and they have to do their grocery shopping.<\/p>\n\n\n\n By themselves.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n This means at the evening or the weekend; a grocery store can often be full of MILFs who are doing their weekly shopping. They won\u2019t have a man in tow or any kids – they\u2019ll just be doing their thing.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n And this makes them perfect for picking up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Naturally, no one goes to a grocery store expecting to be picked up. As such, you can\u2019t just walk in there and expect to be able to flirt with a MILF and take her home. It\u2019s not going to work like that, and if you go in there with the wrong approach, you\u2019ll scare her off by coming across as creepy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s a much better idea to, first of all, see who you can make eye contact with. Then, offer a smile and perhaps some assistance. Just be friendly, be natural. If it appears that the MILF is interested in you, you can take things up a notch by chatting further and even engaging in some flirting. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s also worth noting that, while a MILF won\u2019t necessarily go to a grocery store expecting to be picked up, that doesn\u2019t mean she isn\u2019t horny and in the mood for sex. MILFs – scorching ones – know how attractive they are, and they know for a fact that guys go to grocery stores to pick women up. So while she might not expect it, she may still be ready for it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So don\u2019t be shy. If there\u2019s chemistry between you and a MILF in a grocery store – go for it.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n Now that you know the places where you can find MILFs, it's important that you prepare yourself by learning how to seduce them<\/a>. After that, you can also learn tips for dating them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Okay, so far, I\u2019ve outlined the best places to find MILFs. But how do you go about MILF dating?<\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s not easy because MILFs have very<\/em> high standards. They won\u2019t settle for average. If you\u2019re young, dumb, and poorly dressed, you will have zero chance. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Instead, despite being young, you have to have charm at least and show that you\u2019re experienced enough to be able to handle a classy lady! <\/p>\n\n\n\n\n
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2. Bars & Clubs<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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3. Middle\/Upper-Class Residential Neighbourhoods <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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