doesn\u2019t<\/em> need drama. <\/p>\n\n\n\nAbove all else, she just wants the same thing you want – to get laid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So cut the BS. No poetry. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
At the same time, you shouldn\u2019t go to the other extreme. This means you shouldn\u2019t start off with a cheesy one-liner. MILFs have heard them all their lives – they don\u2019t need to hear anymore. A cheesy opening line might work with some younger girls, but not with a cougar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Instead, I recommend starting off with something that demonstrates your supreme self-confidence. Remember, hot older women want a guy who\u2019s confident and sure of himself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
They also want a guy who\u2019s brave enough to shoot them a compliment straight away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So I\u2019d go ahead and send them a compliment. Take a look at their profile and see what you can come up with. Try to be original and unique, but make sure the compliment is unique to them<\/em>. Show them you\u2019ve got the balls to say they look beautiful but do it in a very non-cheesy way. <\/p>\n\n\n\nOnce you\u2019ve got a reply, it\u2019s probably going to be up to you to dictate the conversation for the first few exchanges. If so, make sure to stay flirty, confident, and direct. <\/p>\n\n\n
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<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\nDon\u2019t<\/em> be too silly at this point. You can toss in the odd joke here and there, and you should definitely try to make her laugh a little. But guys who are overly silly and goofy online will just turn a MILF straight off. She wants a grown man who\u2019s mature, in control of himself and his thoughts, but who will also make her laugh. <\/p>\n\n\n\nGetting the balance right isn\u2019t easy, especially if you haven\u2019t done it before. This is why I always recommend guys watch movies starring the likes of Leonardo Di Caprio and George Clooney – suave charmers who know exactly what to say to women. The trick is to be cool, to keep your replies brief, but to also make your replies engaging enough to elicit the woman\u2019s curiosity. Make her second guess things about you, create a bit of mystery around yourself – and let her<\/em> ask questions.<\/p>\n\n\n\nMore than anything, work hard to get into rapport<\/em> with her. This means saying nothing offensive, keeping the conversation positive and light, flirting when the time is right, teasing her when the time is right – and not<\/em> mentioning her age. <\/p>\n\n\n\nYou should also bear in mind that a cougar leads a busy life. No<\/em> girl wants a clingy guy who texts them all the time and asks, \u201cwhere are you?\u201d But it\u2019s much worse if you do it with a cougar. So even if you appear clingy or needy just once, you\u2019ve already ruined your chances.<\/p>\n\n\n\nLastly, while you don\u2019t want to turn the conversation sexual too soon, you will want to go there eventually<\/em>. After all, this is why you\u2019re both here. And unless you have the confidence to turn the conversation sexual, the cougar will assume you simply don\u2019t know what you\u2019re doing – and she will move on. <\/p>\n\n\n\nCougars use Tinder, but because Tinder is used by all kinds of girls and women, you must do the right things to save time and get exactly what you want. Use the tips in this article to find and date cougars on Tinder. But remember, once you set up a date, you need to remain confident, demonstrate your experience with older ladies, and always be charming, funny, and sexy. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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