I\u2019ve got some good news and bad news for you. The bad news is that most men don\u2019t understand women enough to know when they\u2019re sexually attracted to them. So they miss all the signs, the gestures and the come-ons \u2026 and they miss the opportunity to get laid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Worse still, they get friend-zoned.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The good<\/em> news is that sexual tension signs<\/a> are not as mysterious as you might think. While it can be easy to misunderstand a woman\u2019s signals, it\u2019s only to misunderstand them if you don\u2019t know what to look for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In fact, there are 13 signs a woman is attracted to you sexually and a lot of them are about body language. These signs are common among all<\/em> women, and if she\u2019s displaying more than a few of them, she\u2019s definitely into you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Let\u2019s take a look at the….<\/p>\n\n\n\n We\u2019ll talk about eyes and eye contact a little bit later, but I want to focus on the lips for now. When a woman stares at your lips, it means she\u2019s interested in you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n How come? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Think about it:<\/strong> Lips are what we use to kiss each other with. Lips are what we use to pleasure someone orally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lips = sex. <\/p>\n\n\n\n When a woman can\u2019t stop glancing at your lips during a conversation, it\u2019s a powerful sign that her mind is wandering. She\u2019s fantasizing and imagining all kinds of naughty things, such as what you\u2019d taste like and whether or not you\u2019re a good kisser.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n Think about it:<\/strong>\u00a0Would a colleague with whom you\u2019re working on a project glance at your lips? Absolutely not! It would be silly to do that.\u00a0So if you catch your date stealing a few looks at your lips, take it as meaning there is sexual tension.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ever seen a movie where a girl is interested in a guy \u2026 and bites her lips? <\/p>\n\n\n\n This is a seduction tactic that girls use whenever they\u2019re fantasizing about taking a guy to bed. They\u2019ll look him up and down, seize him up, smile, get a cheeky glint in their eye – and bite their lips.<\/p>\n\n\n\n They won\u2019t necessarily do this on purpose. It\u2019s often a subconscious thing. But all women do it – introverts and extroverts – so it\u2019s well worth paying attention to what they do with their lips. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Again, I\u2019ll go back to the earlier example.<\/p>\n\n\n\n While it\u2019s normal for a woman to make eye contact with you in – say – an office setting or in a meeting, it\u2019s not normal for her to constantly glance at your lips. But, of course, she\u2019ll only do this if she wants to have sex with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When it comes to sitting next to you, the signs can<\/em> be more mixed. Maybe she wants to have sex, or perhaps she\u2019s just so comfortable with you as a friend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But when she starts touching you?<\/strong> Yeah, that usually<\/em> means she\u2019s attracted to you sexually.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Touch is intimate. It always has been, and always will be. So when someone touches us, it often means something.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And especially<\/em> if a date touches you, it means a lot. <\/p>\n\n\n\n For example, let\u2019s say she touches you on the shoulder. That\u2019s nice. But now she touches you on the leg, the chest – and the face.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Oh, and she playfully punches you, too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Or, maybe she\u2019ll compliment you on your \u201csoft skin\u201d and touch your hands and exposed arms. <\/p>\n\n\n\n All of this means she\u2019s really into you. She\u2019s comfortable in your company, sure, but she also wants something more. She\u2019s melting inside, and she wants you physically. <\/p>\n\n\n\n The funny thing about touch is that you can ruin her sexual attraction by touching her back. So instead, it\u2019s much better to let her do the touching for now as it will increase her sexual desire. <\/p>\n\n\n\n (or she invites you to sit next to her)<\/p>\n\n\n\n I\u2019ve been on dates with women who\u2019ve remained at a distance from me. I\u2019m sure you have, too. It\u2019s totally cool – it means they\u2019re not comfortable with us yet. And it definitely means they\u2019re not sexually attracted to us yet. <\/p>\n\n\n\n And, hey, maybe they never will be. Again – totally cool.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But if a woman sits right next to you or invites you to sit right next to her, it\u2019s a powerful sign that fancies you and perhaps wants to go to bed with you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It means she\u2019s comfortable in your company and trusts you already. The barriers have come down; she wants to get closer to you, and – who knows – it may not be long before she starts touching you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Is there anything more charming than a girl\u2019s pretty smile?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Possibly not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And, look, some girls naturally smile a lot. They smile with their friends and family; they smile at work. They\u2019re constantly smiling in photographs. They\u2019re just smiley people!<\/p>\n\n\n\n So, just because a girl smiles around you, it doesn\u2019t necessarily mean she\u2019s attracted to you sexually. She could just be having a great time and is a naturally smiley individual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n However, what I would say is that if a girl isn\u2019t<\/em> smiling, it\u2019s a surefire sign that she\u2019s not digging you. If she only smiles nervously at your \u201cjokes\u201d, or if she only seems to come alive when it\u2019s time to go, then you should back off. She\u2019s not interested.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But if she\u2019s smiling a lot and seems<\/em> keen on you, and if she\u2019s smiling while touching you or sitting next to you or looking at your lips, then you can test the waters by flirting with her and seeing how she reacts. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Earlier, we mentioned how if a woman smiles a lot while talking to you, it\u2019s a strong<\/em> sign that she\u2019s interested in you sexually.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But what about eye contact?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Prolonged eye contact can mean two things. It can mean you\u2019ve captured a woman\u2019s attention, and she\u2019s really listening to you \u2026 or it can mean you\u2019ve captivated her so much that she\u2019s super-horny right now and wants to take you to bed<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n So how can you tell the difference?<\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s the way<\/em> she makes eye contact.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If a woman constantly gazes into your eyes and can\u2019t seem to look away, she\u2019s clearly under your spell. She may even be fantasizing there and then.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n But then pay attention to where her eyes go next. Does she shift her gaze to your lips, your chest, your arms? If so, it\u2019s a CLEAR sign that she\u2019s sexually attracted to you and is imagining all kinds of things. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Let\u2019s face it: some girls like to play with their hair a lot anyway. So why does this mean that she might be sexually attracted to you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Playing with her hair has long been seen as a form of flirtation by a girl. It\u2019s her way of flaunting her natural, feminine attributes.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n And when she plays with her hair while talking to you and establishing eye contact, it\u2019s a strong<\/em> sign that she desires you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It all comes down to sex appeal. For women, a large part of their sex appeal is their hair. Subconsciously, when a woman wants to have sex with you, she will start doing things that heighten her sex appeal – including drawing your attention to her hair. <\/p>\n\n\n\n A girl who\u2019s hot at texting isn\u2019t necessarily a girl who\u2019s turned on by you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But it would be best if you looked at her texts for patterns. <\/p>\n\n\n\n For example, why<\/em> does she text? Does she text you because you\u2019re already chatting, or does she text you randomly for no apparent reason other than to start a conversation with you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Girls interested in guys will find reasons to text, even if there don\u2019t seem<\/em> to be any reasons to text. Maybe she\u2019ll tell you about a \u201cfunny thing that happened at work today,\u201d or perhaps she\u2019ll say, \u201cHey! I just wanted to see how your day is going?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Look for the signs and read between the lines. <\/p>\n\n\n\n She could also give you a hint through subtle sexual conversation in the form of sexting emojis<\/a> or she may flirt over text <\/a>(subtly).<\/p>\n\n\n\n Okay, so a woman laughs at your jokes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Does that really mean she\u2019s sexually attracted to you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Or are you just a funny guy? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Well, I\u2019ll let you answer the second question. But when a woman can\u2019t stop giggling at your jokes, it can<\/em> be a sign that she wants to take you to bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Just pay close attention to how she behaves when you tell a joke or say something funny. If it seems like she thinks you\u2019re the funniest guy on the planet, it can mean she\u2019s attracted to you sexually – especially if she playfully punches you or if she\u2019s got actual tears from laughing too much. <\/p>\n\n\n\n And here\u2019s the thing:<\/strong> Laughter can enhance sexual chemistry. If you can make a girl laugh so much that her sides split, it creates a bond that makes her desire you more. <\/p>\n\n\n\n So if you\u2019re able to make a girl laugh, my pro tip is that you keep doing whatever it is that you\u2019re doing that\u2019s so damn funny. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Let\u2019s say you\u2019re going out with a woman, but you\u2019ve decided to keep your clothing fairly low-key. After all, you\u2019re only going for some food and maybe to the cinema.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Your date, on the other hand, dresses up<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n She looks stunning. She looks sexy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Did she do it for herself? Did she do it to attract the attention of other men? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Or did she do it for you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s highly probable that she did it for you. And if she did, it\u2019s a huge sign that she wants you sexually. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sure, friends compliment each other. For example, I might say to a female friend, \u201cyou look great today!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n It doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019m sexually attracted to her. It\u2019s just nice to say something nice about someone, especially if we really mean it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n And if a girl says to you, \u201cdamn, you\u2019re pretty good at this,\u201d does it mean she\u2019s sexually attracted to you and wants to take you home? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Or is she just being nice? <\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s not always easy to tell, but know this: Girls don\u2019t just send out random compliments on a whim. When they compliment a guy, they tend to mean it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And sometimes, a compliment is a way of telling you, \u201cI want you.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n What kind of compliments should you look out for? <\/p>\n\n\n\n If she compliments the way you look<\/em>, it\u2019s a strong sign that she\u2019s interested in you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If a woman desires you sexually, she might not always blush. It might be the case that she never<\/em> blushes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n But if a woman does blush while she\u2019s in your company, it\u2019s a good sign that she\u2019s really horny right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n How come?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Blushing is something a person does involuntarily when their blood pressure rises. And while there are different reasons for blushing, being around someone who makes us horny can raise our blood pressure – and cause us to blush. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Of course, context matters. A girl might blush because she\u2019s embarrassed. So if she says something embarrassing while she\u2019s with you and then blushes, it probably <\/em>isn\u2019t a sign that she\u2019s sexually attracted to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But if the two of you are flirting and things are clearly heating up, and she blushes, you should take it as a sign that she wants to see you naked. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lastly, we sometimes don\u2019t see the signs ourselves. She\u2019s obviously into us and wants to have sex with us – but we miss out because we haven\u2019t read the signs. We weren\u2019t sure<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If this is the case, if you need one final sign that a woman is attracted to you sexually, listen to what other people tell you. If they say, \u201cshe definitely likes you, man,\u201d accept what they say as the truth. They see things from an objective point of view, and if they tell you she wants you – you should go with that <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Wanna know whether or not a woman is attracted to you sexually? Knowing the answer is a big deal. If a woman is sexually attracted … <\/p>\n13 signs a woman is sexually attracted to you. <\/h2>\n\n\n\n
1. She Looks At Your Lips <\/h3>\n\n\n
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<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n2. She Bites Her Lips <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
3. She Keeps Touching You<\/h3>\n\n\n
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<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n4. She Find a Reason To Sit Next To You\u00a0<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
5. She Smiles Loads<\/h3>\n\n\n
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<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n6. She Makes Eye Contact <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
7. She Plays With Her Hair a Lot <\/h3>\n\n\n
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<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n8. She Texts A Lot<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
9. She Really Laughs At Your Jokes <\/h3>\n\n\n
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<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n10. She Dresses Sexy For You\u00a0<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
11. She Sends You Compliments <\/h3>\n\n\n
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<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n12. She Blushes <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
13. People Have Told You <\/h3>\n\n\n\n