Bumble has grown to be one of the world’s most popular dating apps. It’s used by millions of men and women, and people use it to land dates, hookups and even make new friends in new cities.
But while it seems as though everyone is having a great time on Bumble, you might have an entirely different experience! As great as Bumble can be, it can also be really frustrating. Maybe you’re not getting any matches or, if you are, your matches aren’t talking to you. What gives?
The bad news is that, yes, succeeding on Bumble can be tricky. The good news is that, if you do the right things, success on Bumble can come pretty easily. Whether you’re looking for a date or a new mate, Bumble can be conquered.
I have been using Bumble for well over a year now. During that time, I’ve learned what works and what doesn’t work. I’ve gone from having no luck to having lots of luck. In this article, I’ll be sharing what I’ve learned via some ace Bumble tips that you can put into practice tonight.
5 Best Profile Bumble Tips That are Easy to Implement
1. Ask a Friend To Choose Your Pics
A rookie mistake is to choose pictures that YOU think make you look good. I’ve made this mistake myself in the past. I’ve gone through my Facebook and Instagram accounts, as well as my phone, and chosen the photos that – I feel – make me look incredible. The angles are good, the lighting is great … and yet, these pics got me nowhere.
Here’s the truth: People are – generally – really rubbish at choosing their best pics. Why? Because they aren’t being objective enough. We choose pics that we think make us look like a model when, in reality, they make us look unapproachable.
Worse still, they make us look untrustworthy.
Have you ever asked a friend to pick a photo of you for your dating profile? Maybe you have and maybe you said, “what? Really? You think I look good in that pic? No way!”
It’s weird but guess what? They’re right!
Other people are better at judging your pics than you are because they’re being objective. They’re able to see the REAL YOU. Not the fake poser you, but the real you. And it’s this real you that will help you achieve better results on Bumble.
So go ahead and ask a friend if they’d be so kind as to spend a few minutes choosing pics that flaunt your true personality.
2. Write a Killer Bumble Bio
There are two ingredients to getting matches on Bumble. The first is to add the right pics, and the second is to write a killer bio.
The second bit can be hard to do if you’re starting from scratch and have limited experience with dating apps. Maybe you’ve tried before and the best you can come up with is “24, live in New York, love Netflix and travel.”
The thing is, who doesn’t love Netflix and travel?
A bio doesn’t have to be a list of the things you like and dislike. In fact, that kinda bio is boring and will not help you stand out. Instead, it’s a much better idea to think outside the box a little. Here are some tips for writing a killer bio:
- Always keep it short. Bumble limit you to 300 characters anyway, but it’s usually a good idea to write even less than that
- Create intrigue. You could, for example, add an unusual hobby you have, or write something like “I was born under a full moon.” The mystery is what people love, so figure out a way to add some to your bio
- Ask a question. It’s always good to get a question in before you’ve even started a conversation with someone. For example, you could add a prompt to your Bumble bio, like this: “If I gave you a million dollars, what would you spend it on first?” There’s every chance that a person who matches you will reply with their answer in their opening message to you
- Add emojis. Emojis add color and spice to your bio. Use them but don’t over-use them
- Be funny. Being funny isn’t easy but you can always google some killer one-liners. A funny bio will ALWAYS land a few matches
- Add quotes. Ask your friends to describe you and then add their quotes to your bio. The funnier the quotes are (and the weirder they are), the better!
Inside Scoop: Here are examples of best bumble bios.
3. Be Personal As Soon As Possible
Too many people start a conversation on Bumble with “hey, how are you?”
Or, they add a witty one-liner they’ve seen someone else use.
The problem is that generic openers are boring and we’ve all heard them before. We KNOW you’ve copy and pasted your opener from another conversation!
Successful online dating is all about getting into rapport with someone as soon as possible. It’s not easy, but the best thing to do is to make your messages personal as soon as possible.
For example, you could comment on their pictures. Is there something that stands out to you that would make for an interesting conversation starter? Or, you could pick something out from their bio and go from there. Another good idea is to ask for their dog’s name if they’ve got a dog in any of their pics (many have).
Whatever you do, it’s key that you steer the conversation to them as soon as possible so that it doesn’t look like you’re having the kind of generic conversation you’ve had with many people on Bumble.
4. Don’t Come Across As Needy
One of the problems some people have with apps like Bumble is that, because they get so few matches, they end up appearing TOO enthusiastic when they finally get talking to someone. And this enthusiasm can sometimes come across as needy to the other person.
What does it look like? Replying too quickly, asking too many questions, and asking for a date too soon.
Remember, people who use Bumble may have many matches and they may lead a busy life. The REAL way to catch their attention is to be the cool person who isn’t in a hurry to land a date, and who is confident and at ease with themselves.
So take your time when replying to messages. Don’t make them wait too long but don’t be in a rush. Don’t make it seem as though you’re grateful that someone is finally talking to you on Bumble.
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5. Keep Your Messages Short, Sweet and Lighthearted
Once you start writing novels via a Bumble message, you’re going to lose. When it comes to crafting a Bumble message, aim to keep each one short. If it looks too long, edit it and cut some of it out.
Also, don’t get so serious just yet. Stick to lighthearted topics, make jokes, have fun, and flirt. Don’t be negative, don’t come across as a hater. People sometimes use dating apps to escape from the humdrum of normal life. If you’re someone who can entertain them and spread positive vibes, they will like you a lot more.
Mastering Bumble and landing a date isn’t rocket science. But it’s also not that simple either. Use the tips in this article to improve your dating life. Ask a friend to choose your pics for you (and listen to their advice!), craft a killer bio, and be personal, confident, and funny. If you do all this, your chances of success – while not guaranteed – will be a lot higher.