Sexting is fun. You don’t need to leave the house and you can do it whenever you’re horny. But it’s only fun when you’re sexting someone who’s just as good as you are at it, and who’s readily available when you want them to be.
Sexting is a bit of an art but the problem is that it’s not always easy to find someone who’s on your level. You want someone who’s a) up for sexting and b) gets you so wet and horny that you keep on coming back for more.
The good news is that there are plenty of horny singles on sexting apps and sites who are gagging for sexting just as much as you are. They’re real, horny and available right now.
Where are they? Join us as we take a look a the best sexting apps and sites so that you can make a start on creating an account before relieving yourself in one of the most fun ways possible.
10 of the Best Sexting Apps
Arousr is one of the best sexting sites available right now. It’s safe, secure and high-traffic – three things you need when looking for a sexting site. It’s also responsively designed, which means the website is easy to navigate and work your way around.
The signup process, for example, is fast and simple because all you need is your mobile phone number. Once you’ve entered it, you’ll be texted a 4 digit PIN which you then need to enter in order to complete the registration process.
Once you’re in, you need to pick a Chat Host before you can begin sexting.
Arousr is free to join but you’ll need to upgrade to a payment plan in order to sext other members. You’ll also be able to indulge in some erotic phone sex, as well as live video chats.
To use these features you need to buy what are called tokens. Bear in mind that the phone sex feature, in particular, can be costly, but if you just use it one or two nights a week, you’ll be okay.
Credits start out from 300 for $16.95 but you can get a better deal if you buy up 2000 credits in one go for $100.00. And if you’re really not sure whether or not Arousr is worth any tokens, Arousr gift you 100 free tokens to help you get a feel for the website.
Be Naughty is a hookup site that gives you the chance to engage in your wildest sexting fantasies. It’s jam-packed with millions of members who are as tired of small talk as you are – they’re horny and just want to get down to things straight away.
Be Naughty is free to register with, and for free you can check who’s online right now, and you can wink at other members. However, male members have to pay in order to send messages, while females get to use this and all the other features for free.
Bit of a bum deal? Well, guys at least get a 3-day trial that costs $0.99 per day. This trial lets you dip your toe in the water to see whether you’ll be able to get the sexting experiences you’re looking for.
It’s not that hard to find members who are looking for a wild sexting experience. As mentioned, there are millions of users on here, and while some of them are fake, most of them are real. The easiest way to spot a real profile from a fake one is to ignore the flood of messages you’ll receive when you first sign up for free.
If you’re just looking for sexting and nothing more at the moment, you can filter your search results so that you only target the right kind of user. And let’s face it, most users who are on Be Naughty are looking to explore different sides of their sexuality.
Perhaps the most popular hookup app in the world, Tinder is also very useful if you’re just looking for a sexting partner.
The way it works is really simple: All you then need to do is start swiping. If you swipe right for someone who also swiped right for you, you’ve landed yourself a match. Should you then start sexting immediately? Not quite …
Tinder became popular as a hookup site originally but lots of singles use it these days for short term and long term dating. Some even use the app to find new friends and make new connections in different parts of the world. However, there are still plenty of horny users who use the app to have a bit of fun, either in person or via sext.
It’s just a case of finding the men or women who are up for some flirty fun on their phones and then building rapport with them before sexting.
It’s not advisable to start sexting every single match because this behavior will most likely get you reported.
The best thing to do is to first of all state on your profile that you’re looking for some sexting fun, and to use Tinder as an alternative to any paid sexting site you join. That way, it’s there when you need it but it’s not your main focus. Moreover, Tinder is totally free to join and message users, although there are restrictions in place. For example, you get a limited number of swipes per day.
It’s also worth mentioning that Tinder is very high-traffic and it’s not always so easy to get matches. A Boost feature costs a few dollars each time you use it, and the idea is that it puts you at the front of the queue so that more people see your profile. Use the Boost feature to get more matches and tweak your profile so that you attract more people who are just looking to sext.
Snapchat is a messaging app that’s ideal for sexting. A lot of the times, you might find that someone you’ve been sexting briefly wants to take it onto Snapchat. Why? Because it’s easier to send private photos and keep things confidential.
Snapchat is a great place to discreetly send sexts (including pics) to people you’re interested in. It’s 100% discreet and secure and your pics vanish within a few hours, never to be seen again. This helps to keep the flame of desire burning because you’re always left wanting more and it means you’re never caught out.
On sites like Tinder and even Be Naughty, there is no function that lets you send naughty pics 1:1 like this.
Snapchat works like this:
You’ve to create a friends’ list of people you know (you can add people you’ve been chatting to on Tinder and other dating sites). Then, pick the person you want to sext with before sending them a message or a pic. If they’re into sexting, they’ll send you one back.
You can send whatever pics you want and make them as graphic as you want. Snapchat also lets you add filters as well as emojis to make your pics even sexier.
You can send sexy videos, too. These videos are cut at 10 seconds but that’s still plenty of time to send something erotic to the other person.
Like Snapchat, Confide isn’t primarily a sexting site. But if privacy is your most important concern right now, Confide will certainly help to keep your messages private so that you can be sure no one else will see them.
It’s free to download and it’s bolstered by industry-standard encryption that will make it impossible for anyone to see your messages apart from yourself and the person you’re sending them to.
Is it as fun as a hookup site?
Well, you can’t use it to find hookups or people to sext, but you can use it to send sexts to people you already know. And isn’t that why we’re all here in the first place?
One of the oldest and most reputable online dating sites, Plenty of Fish (or POF as it’s also known) is a great place to meet people who are into sexting as much as you are.
It’s first and foremost a dating site, but that doesn’t mean you can’t start off with some sexting before possibly meeting someone in real life.
It’s easy to sign up to and use but you will need to complete a few questions and fields before your profile is up and running. You will be asked for your basic information, such as your age and gender, but you’ll also be asked a few more in-depth questions so that POF can match you with likeminded people.
Once your profile is live, you can scan through the millions of users to find someone who’s on your wavelength when it comes to sexting. It’s a good idea to make it known in your headline what you’re looking for, as most people decide whether or not to click on someone’s profile according to their headline.
For example, a headline that reads “Just looking for fun” will act as a dog whistle to other users who are also just looking for fun.
Blendr is a social dating app that looks and feels like Grindr, the gay hookup site. The difference is that it’s aimed at people of all different types of sexual orientations.
You can use it for free or you can upgrade to a fee-based package. Doing so means you get to see who’s added you as a favourite among other things.
Blendr works a lot like Tinder in that you swipe left or right on people you like the look of or don’t like the look of. If you swipe right on someone who swiped right for you, it’s a match and you can start chatting.
A lot of people who use Blendr are typically looking for hookups, but you should be polite and make sure they’re up for sexting before you start sending erotic messages. As long as you’re cool and do the right things, Blendr can work really well as a free sexting app.
Dust is like Snapchat and Confide in that it’s a private messaging app as opposed to an out-and-out sexting site. But it’s the fact that it promotes privacy and confidentiality that makes it a great place to take your conversation if you want things to get racier.
With end-to-end encryption in place, Dust allows you to erase your messages so that no one will see them. Nothing is stored permanently if you don’t it to be. Messages disappear within 100 seconds once you’ve opened them.
One slight issue is that Dust’s user-base isn’t super high at the moment. If you want to sext a friend or fuck buddy, you’ll both need to download Dust first. The good news is that it’s free.
One standout feature, meanwhile, is the group chat feature. Here, you can sext more than one person at the same time if that’s your thing.
Yumi is an anonymous dating app and likes to advertise itself as the world’s first of its kind. It’s so anonymous that you don’t need an email address or a phone number to register. All you need is a gender identity and your sexual preferences. A photo helps but it isn’t necessary, but you can add a voice snippet if you wish.
Then, you need to play Yumi’s game of chance in order to find a sexy someone who wants to start sexting. This game of chance is an actual game where you have to go through rounds before landing a match. Once you’ve locked in a match, you can check their profile. And if you like what you see, it’s time to start sexting.
Yumi is certainly different but we think it brings a fun layer of uniqueness to sexting that many will appreciate.
10. Adult Chat
Adult Chat is free sexting site that does exactly what its name suggests: It gives you the chance to start chatting/sexting with like-minded people online.
You can initiate private conversations and you can also arrange to meet up if you really get along.
Adult Chat works a lot like Tinder except it’s more for people who are looking for casual sex, hookups, and sexting. There are plenty of real profiles on here, the mobile app is super user-friendly but the sign-up process can take as long as 15 minutes, which is fairly lengthy.
These are the best sexting apps and sites around right now. It’s a good idea to try a few out to see which ones work best for you, before upgrading your account to the paid options so that you can start sexting and having some flirty fun tonight. And whatever you do, make sure to stay safe online and be sure someone is legit before you meet up with them.