
Looking for a hookup? Then you need to use one of the best hookup apps.
Hookup culture is on the rise, with as many as 80% of North American college students saying theyâve hooked up.
The problem is – where do you find a hookup? You could try bars and clubs, but we all know that youâre competing with other horny girls and guys who are looking for the same thing you are.
And letâs face it – their game might be better than yours.
Moreover, heading out in search of a hookup costs time and money.
Hookup apps (or sex apps) let you cut to the chase. Instead of wasting time on serial daters or those who are âlooking for love,â you can get right down to things with someone who is looking for the exact same thing you are: Casual sex right now. This is way better than using dating apps like Bumble or Match where sexy singles would rather waste time getting to know you before taking off your pants. Boring.Â
But we get it. There are a lot of dating services out there and some just donât work. Some are filled with âdeadâ profiles, others are filled with people who say they want a hookup, but who, when it comes to the crunch, decide to bail out.
As such, weâve compiled an article dedicated to the best hook-up apps of 2021.
Iâve researched and tested each app thoroughly myself, and Iâll be giving you detailed insights into each one so that you can decide which app is the right one for you.
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Best Hookup Apps of 2021
1. AdultFriendFinder

AdultFriendFinder is a bonafide hookup app thatâs popular all over the world. Itâs one of the biggest hookup sites in the world and can be used for any kind of sexual encounter. Whether youâre looking for a hookup with a straight single, a threesome, a foursome, dogging or even an orgy, you can find it here. There is something for every kind of kink, including BDSM.
However, AFF is also more than just a hookup app. You can also use it to watch cam models and adult movies, and you can also get involved in the AFF community. Literally, nothing is out of bounds and the site even encourages its users to upload naked photos of themselves.
Each time I used AFF, I always got results. Yeah, it was kinda annoying whenever a fake profile messaged me, but itâs really easy to spot these. And the nudity allowed thing is a huge winner. The search options allow you to narrow down your options.
Download AdultFriendFinder on iOS or Google Play
2. Down Dating

Down Dating works a little bit like Tinder in that itâs a swipe app. Its premise is simple: A bunch of profiles are queued up for you based on your preferences, and itâs up to you to decide whether or not you want to match with them. If you âlikeâ them and they like you back, youâre a match and can now start chatting.
Down Dating differs from Tinder by being racier. This is a straight-up sex app that isnât aimed at those who are seeking a relationship. It encourages its users to get straight to the point, although each user gets to choose between âgetting downâ and âgetting a date.â
I enjoyed Down Dating as a good Tinder alternative, and it was brilliant that only people looking for a hookup use the app. I'm DTF, what else can I say?!Â
Download Down Dating on iOS or Google Play.
3. Tinder

Tinder is probably the most popular casual dating app in the world right now. It practically invented the swipe feature that itâs become famous for, itâs used by 50 million+ members all over the globe, and user traffic/member activity remains very high. Like Down, you just need to swipe left or right on profiles. If you match, you can start chatting.
The biggest benefit of using Tinder is that youâve got lots of profiles to choose from, wherever you are. This is a high traffic dating app that also comes with a quick registration process. Moreover, you can write as little as you want in your bio.
Personally, I upgraded to Tinder Gold ASAP so I could exploit extra perks such as the ability to see whoâd already liked me. All in all, I had a lot of success with Tinder for hookups.
Download Tinder on iOS and Google Play.
4. Ashley Madison

Ashley Madison is aimed primarily at adulterous couples who are looking to have an affair. It is one of the few hookup apps where affairs are actively encouraged but donât worry – you can remain anonymous until you hook up with someone. Free from judgment and prying eyes, it has proven to be such a big hit that itâs sued by millions of members worldwide.
One of the reasons for its large membership pool is that women get to send and receive messages for free. However, guys have to pay a fee. Most of the people who use it are middle-aged, most of them are married, and nearly all are looking for no strings attached sex.
One thing I noticed about this dating site is that, sure, people are here looking for a hookup. But they also want to make a genuine connection with you first. Also, watch out for the fake user profiles just like on other dating sites.
Download AshleyMadison on iOS and Google Play.
5. HUD

HUD is a New Zealand-based app thatâs free to download. Itâs aimed at those looking for a one night stand, itâs used by 5,000,000 around the world and is available in over 150 countries. Itâs also super inclusive and encourages anyone and everyone from all walks all life to signup to the app and find hook ups.
HUDâs demographic is largely made up of young adults in the 20-30 years of age bracket, but itâs worth mentioning that itâs especially aimed at those looking for a safe space. HUDâs users donât judge, and all sexual experiences are encouraged.
HUD was among the “good casual dating apps” for me. I didnât use it as the main app but enjoyed the free trial, the superb design, and the fact that you can have video calls.
Download HUD on iOS or Google Play.
6. Pure

Pure is an anonymous hook-up app that & is free for women. Itâs also got a very unique feature that allows it to stand out from all other hookups – basically, you get just 1 hour to chat to people and arrange a hookup before your profile self-destructs. After that, you must create a new profile to start talking to people again.
The user profiles are super anonymous and sparsely detailed. The idea is that Pure wants its users to be able to get to the point very quickly. If youâre looking for a hookup tonight or within the next few hours, this is the site to use. Itâs as simple and straightforward as can be.
Pure worked well for me and I liked the fact that I didnât have to waste time getting to know people. I created a profile by uploading my profile photo, message users – and arranged a time and place to meet up.
Download Pure on iOS or Google Play.
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7. OkCupid

OkCupid is one of the most recognized dating apps in the world. Not strictly just looking for one night stands, itâs more of an all-rounder thatâs aimed at the short and long-term dating game, as well as friendships. However, according to a recent survey, 46% of their users voted for considering to sleep with their date on their first date out.
With its LGBTQ-friendly stance, OkCupid generally appeals to a wide range of people. With 50,000,000+ members worldwide, itâs a tolerant site free from judgment. It doesnât matter what sort of kink youâre into or what kind of hookup youâre looking for, OkCupid has something for everyone.
OkCupid is one of my personal favorites. I stated that I was looking for a hookup, and it wasnât long before I was making genuine connections, going out on dates, and got laid using OkCupid.
Download OkCupid on iOS and Google Play.
8. Feeld

Feeld relies on geolocation to pair you up with local singles (or even couples) who are DTF. According to the app itself, it offers a safe space for anyone who wants hook ups and doesnât want to be judged for it. Anyone and everyone is welcome to sign up, and Feeld is super popular with the LGBT community in particular.
Itâs also worth mentioning that Feeld supports all kinks and is used by very open-minded people. You can register as a single or a couple, there are 200,000 active users each week, and you can chat privately or in a group chat (perfect for threesomes).
I liked the fact that Feeld offers lots of gender options. I got talking to a few very open-minded people and was able to explore a different side of my sexuality using this app.
Download Feeld on iOS and Google Play.
9. FetLife

FetLife is as its name suggests – a dating site aimed at those who have a fetish for all things weird and wonderful. If youâre into kink, BDSM, or any other kind of fetish, FetLife might be one of the best dating sites for you. You can register for free, there are currently 8,000,000 users worldwide you can also engage in group chats.
The dating app has been around for over a decade already, but itâs actually more than just another sex app. It also works as a social platform where people from all walks of life can connect and make new friends.
I really immersed myself in the FetLife community. As well as landing hookups with people who are into different things, I also made some genuine new friends using the app.
Download FetLife on Google Play.
10. Wild

Wild advertises itself as “the fast-growing hook up app for adults seeking casual encounters, FWB and relationships.” They have the app version and also the desktop version, and it works a lot like Tinder. A bunch of profiles are queued up for you, and you need to decide whether or not you like or donât like someone. If you like, youâre a match and can start talking.
Registration takes a minute or less and you donât need to create a detailed profile. You are, however, free to add as many as 10 interests to your bio so that your profile stands out. This is a slick, modern app perfect for those who want a thrilling hookup experience.
I like the fact that Wild is something a bit different from all the other dating apps. Itâs a bit on the expensive side but I soon got chatting and flirting with girls who were looking for the same thing as me.
Download Wild on iOS or Google Play.
11. Grindr

Grindr is a gay hookup app aimed specifically at gay men who are looking for one night stands with other gay men. Itâs easily the most popular hook up app of its type and boasts high user engagement among its 3.3 million daily active users. Registration is free, a quarter of its users are based in the U.S, and itâs used by 27,000,000 around the world.
Grindr is hugely beneficial for gay men because of its high active user base. There are lots of local profiles to choose from and Iâd say 95% of men who sign up are mad for sex right now. If youâre gay and want to hookup ASAP, this is a great app to use.
I checked the app out myself and one of the things I noticed is that men are very eager to message you on here. For a bit of fun and frolicking, itâs a worthy hookup app.
Download Grindr on iOS and Google Play.
12. Her

Where Grindr is aimed at gay men, Her is aimed at lesbian women. Messaging is entirely free (and itâs also unlimited). Her also works as a social media platform where you can post profile pictures and status updates. And while itâs used for hookups, lots of members also use it to make new connections and friends.
The registration process is speedy and shouldnât take longer than a minute, but you can only send messages (ice breakers) to people once youâve matched with them or become their friend. And the fact that you can connect your Facebook account means you can easily verify whether someone is real or not.
As Iâm not a lesbian, I didnât personally use the app to land a hookup. But a member of the team used it and enjoys the fact that free messaging is unlimited.
Download Her on iOS and Google Play.