Looking for a hookup? Then you need to use one of the best hookup apps.
Hookup culture is on the rise, with as many as 80% of North American college students saying they’ve hooked up.
The problem is – where do you find a hookup? You could try bars and clubs, but we all know that you’re competing with other horny girls and guys who are looking for the same thing you are.
And let’s face it – their game might be better than yours.
Moreover, heading out in search of a hookup costs time and money.
Hookup apps (or sex apps) let you cut to the chase. Instead of wasting time on serial daters or those who are “looking for love,” you can get right down to things with someone who is looking for the exact same thing you are: Casual sex right now. This is way better than using dating apps like Bumble or Match where sexy singles would rather waste time getting to know you before taking off your pants. Boring.
But we get it. There are a lot of dating services out there and some just don’t work. Some are filled with “dead” profiles, others are filled with people who say they want a hookup, but who, when it comes to the crunch, decide to bail out.
As such, we’ve compiled an article dedicated to the best hook-up apps of 2021.
I’ve researched and tested each app thoroughly myself, and I’ll be giving you detailed insights into each one so that you can decide which app is the right one for you.
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Best Hookup Apps of 2021
AdultFriendFinder is a bonafide hookup app that’s popular all over the world. It’s one of the biggest hookup sites in the world and can be used for any kind of sexual encounter. Whether you’re looking for a hookup with a straight single, a threesome, a foursome, dogging or even an orgy, you can find it here. There is something for every kind of kink, including BDSM.
However, AFF is also more than just a hookup app. You can also use it to watch cam models and adult movies, and you can also get involved in the AFF community. Literally, nothing is out of bounds and the site even encourages its users to upload naked photos of themselves.
Each time I used AFF, I always got results. Yeah, it was kinda annoying whenever a fake profile messaged me, but it’s really easy to spot these. And the nudity allowed thing is a huge winner. The search options allow you to narrow down your options.
2. Down Dating
Down Dating works a little bit like Tinder in that it’s a swipe app. Its premise is simple: A bunch of profiles are queued up for you based on your preferences, and it’s up to you to decide whether or not you want to match with them. If you ‘like’ them and they like you back, you’re a match and can now start chatting.
Down Dating differs from Tinder by being racier. This is a straight-up sex app that isn’t aimed at those who are seeking a relationship. It encourages its users to get straight to the point, although each user gets to choose between ‘getting down’ and ‘getting a date.’
I enjoyed Down Dating as a good Tinder alternative, and it was brilliant that only people looking for a hookup use the app. I'm DTF, what else can I say?!
Tinder is probably the most popular casual dating app in the world right now. It practically invented the swipe feature that it’s become famous for, it’s used by 50 million+ members all over the globe, and user traffic/member activity remains very high. Like Down, you just need to swipe left or right on profiles. If you match, you can start chatting.
The biggest benefit of using Tinder is that you’ve got lots of profiles to choose from, wherever you are. This is a high traffic dating app that also comes with a quick registration process. Moreover, you can write as little as you want in your bio.
Personally, I upgraded to Tinder Gold ASAP so I could exploit extra perks such as the ability to see who’d already liked me. All in all, I had a lot of success with Tinder for hookups.
4. Ashley Madison
Ashley Madison is aimed primarily at adulterous couples who are looking to have an affair. It is one of the few hookup apps where affairs are actively encouraged but don’t worry – you can remain anonymous until you hook up with someone. Free from judgment and prying eyes, it has proven to be such a big hit that it’s sued by millions of members worldwide.
One of the reasons for its large membership pool is that women get to send and receive messages for free. However, guys have to pay a fee. Most of the people who use it are middle-aged, most of them are married, and nearly all are looking for no strings attached sex.
One thing I noticed about this dating site is that, sure, people are here looking for a hookup. But they also want to make a genuine connection with you first. Also, watch out for the fake user profiles just like on other dating sites.
HUD is a New Zealand-based app that’s free to download. It’s aimed at those looking for a one night stand, it’s used by 5,000,000 around the world and is available in over 150 countries. It’s also super inclusive and encourages anyone and everyone from all walks all life to signup to the app and find hook ups.
HUD’s demographic is largely made up of young adults in the 20-30 years of age bracket, but it’s worth mentioning that it’s especially aimed at those looking for a safe space. HUD’s users don’t judge, and all sexual experiences are encouraged.
HUD was among the “good casual dating apps” for me. I didn’t use it as the main app but enjoyed the free trial, the superb design, and the fact that you can have video calls.
Pure is an anonymous hook-up app that & is free for women. It’s also got a very unique feature that allows it to stand out from all other hookups – basically, you get just 1 hour to chat to people and arrange a hookup before your profile self-destructs. After that, you must create a new profile to start talking to people again.
The user profiles are super anonymous and sparsely detailed. The idea is that Pure wants its users to be able to get to the point very quickly. If you’re looking for a hookup tonight or within the next few hours, this is the site to use. It’s as simple and straightforward as can be.
Pure worked well for me and I liked the fact that I didn’t have to waste time getting to know people. I created a profile by uploading my profile photo, message users – and arranged a time and place to meet up.
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OkCupid is one of the most recognized dating apps in the world. Not strictly just looking for one night stands, it’s more of an all-rounder that’s aimed at the short and long-term dating game, as well as friendships. However, according to a recent survey, 46% of their users voted for considering to sleep with their date on their first date out.
With its LGBTQ-friendly stance, OkCupid generally appeals to a wide range of people. With 50,000,000+ members worldwide, it’s a tolerant site free from judgment. It doesn’t matter what sort of kink you’re into or what kind of hookup you’re looking for, OkCupid has something for everyone.
OkCupid is one of my personal favorites. I stated that I was looking for a hookup, and it wasn’t long before I was making genuine connections, going out on dates, and got laid using OkCupid.
Feeld relies on geolocation to pair you up with local singles (or even couples) who are DTF. According to the app itself, it offers a safe space for anyone who wants hook ups and doesn’t want to be judged for it. Anyone and everyone is welcome to sign up, and Feeld is super popular with the LGBT community in particular.
It’s also worth mentioning that Feeld supports all kinks and is used by very open-minded people. You can register as a single or a couple, there are 200,000 active users each week, and you can chat privately or in a group chat (perfect for threesomes).
I liked the fact that Feeld offers lots of gender options. I got talking to a few very open-minded people and was able to explore a different side of my sexuality using this app.
FetLife is as its name suggests – a dating site aimed at those who have a fetish for all things weird and wonderful. If you’re into kink, BDSM, or any other kind of fetish, FetLife might be one of the best dating sites for you. You can register for free, there are currently 8,000,000 users worldwide you can also engage in group chats.
The dating app has been around for over a decade already, but it’s actually more than just another sex app. It also works as a social platform where people from all walks of life can connect and make new friends.
I really immersed myself in the FetLife community. As well as landing hookups with people who are into different things, I also made some genuine new friends using the app.
Download FetLife on Google Play.
Wild advertises itself as “the fast-growing hook up app for adults seeking casual encounters, FWB and relationships.” They have the app version and also the desktop version, and it works a lot like Tinder. A bunch of profiles are queued up for you, and you need to decide whether or not you like or don’t like someone. If you like, you’re a match and can start talking.
Registration takes a minute or less and you don’t need to create a detailed profile. You are, however, free to add as many as 10 interests to your bio so that your profile stands out. This is a slick, modern app perfect for those who want a thrilling hookup experience.
I like the fact that Wild is something a bit different from all the other dating apps. It’s a bit on the expensive side but I soon got chatting and flirting with girls who were looking for the same thing as me.
Grindr is a gay hookup app aimed specifically at gay men who are looking for one night stands with other gay men. It’s easily the most popular hook up app of its type and boasts high user engagement among its 3.3 million daily active users. Registration is free, a quarter of its users are based in the U.S, and it’s used by 27,000,000 around the world.
Grindr is hugely beneficial for gay men because of its high active user base. There are lots of local profiles to choose from and I’d say 95% of men who sign up are mad for sex right now. If you’re gay and want to hookup ASAP, this is a great app to use.
I checked the app out myself and one of the things I noticed is that men are very eager to message you on here. For a bit of fun and frolicking, it’s a worthy hookup app.
Where Grindr is aimed at gay men, Her is aimed at lesbian women. Messaging is entirely free (and it’s also unlimited). Her also works as a social media platform where you can post profile pictures and status updates. And while it’s used for hookups, lots of members also use it to make new connections and friends.
The registration process is speedy and shouldn’t take longer than a minute, but you can only send messages (ice breakers) to people once you’ve matched with them or become their friend. And the fact that you can connect your Facebook account means you can easily verify whether someone is real or not.
As I’m not a lesbian, I didn’t personally use the app to land a hookup. But a member of the team used it and enjoys the fact that free messaging is unlimited.