Want to know what flirty questions to ask a girl?
If you knew what flirting questions to ask a girl, you could hook way more girls than you are doing right now.
After all, flirtation is the first step to creating a connection with a girl and getting her attention. It excites her, pushes her emotional buttons and elicits her curiosity. She wants to keep the conversation going!
The thing is, flirty questions can go two ways: They can brutally offend a girl, or even creep her out, thus causing her to break off the conversation with you immediately (or even block you!).
Or, they can trigger an emotional and even sexual response which already makes her DESIRE you, at least on a subliminal level.
The reason they can go two ways?
Because getting a flirty question right is difficult, especially if this is a brand new girl you’re talking to online or in a bar. She doesn’t know who you are, has no idea what your sense of humour is, and is thus on her guard.
In fact, there are four elements to flirting nicely:
- Tease her, but never tease her about her appearance or the things that really matter to her
- Never be overtly sexual (it must always be subtle and suggestive)
- Use wordplay and puns
- If she isn’t responsive to your flirting, it’s time to stop
The good news is that this article is here to help. I’m going to show you 30 flirty questions to ask a girl that are way different from the usual, “Hey, how was your day?” These questions are designed to grab her attention, raise her pulse – and get her to desire you instantly so that she wants to learn more about you.
30 The Best Flirty Questions To Ask a Girl
1. What’s Your Biggest Turn-On?
This instantly gets her thinking about sex without coming across as creepy or weird.
2. Can I Get To Know You More?
Nothing shows a girl you dig her and want to flirt with her some more than this question.
3. Do You Prefer Bad Boys Or Nice Guys?
This question allows you to extra key dating info from her without the conversation getting serious.
4. Do Looks Matter More Than Personality To You?
Same as above.
5. What Was Your Most Embarrassing First Date? I Promise Not To Tell Anyone!
You’re being a tad cheeky with this question – but that’s kinda the whole point of flirting.
6. Who’s Your Biggest Celebrity Crush?
Getting a girl to talk about the people she crushes on is a great way to turn the conversation naughty if needs be.
7. You Liked Me From The Moment You Met Me, Didn’t You?
With this one, you’re being very forward and confident – which is perfect for flirting with her.
8. Do Compliments Embarrass You?
This question could even embarrass her a little – but that’s the point!
9. If You Had To Give Me a Nickname, What Would It Be?
Flirting is all about creating a connection with someone, and this question is great for doing just that.
10. How Do You Like Men To Dress?
It’s always good to know what she wants her men to look like.
11. What Was Your First Impression Of Me?
With a question such as this, it’s possible she’ll say that she found you to be super confident from the get-go.
12. What Was The Biggest Lie You Ever Told?
This encourages the girl to get a little bit naughty, which is a great way of getting her to open up.
13. Would You Kiss a Girl?
Flirting requires you to be a little bit naughty and subtly turn the conversation sexual, which is exactly what this question can do.
14. Have You Ever Been To a Strip Club?
Strip clubs can be a risqué subject but this is a fun little question that will give you insights into how open-minded she is.
15. What’s Your Biggest Turn Off?
While this question isn’t as sexual as asking her for her biggest turn on, it still puts you on the right track – and it also lets you know what you need to avoid doing in case YOU turn her off accidentally.
16. What’s The Naughtiest Thing You’ve Ever Done?
This is a great question for learning more about her and then teasing her.
17. What Makes You Laugh The Most?
Laughter can be key to sexual chemistry, which is what makes this a good question.
18. What’s Your Idea of a Romantic Date?
The idea behind this one is that you’re learning more about her with the subtle suggestion that you’ll be taking her out on a romantic date soon.
19. Are You Romantic?
20. If We Were Stuck In An Elevator Together, What Would We Do?
This is a brilliant flirty question to ask a girl because it encourages role play between the two of you – and it could very quickly turn sexual.
21. What Made You Talk To Me?
Even if it was you that talked to the girl first, it doesn’t matter – the purpose of this question is to turn the tables so that it looks like it’s her that’s chasing YOU.
22. Where Are We Going Tonight?
Girls love confident guys, and you can’t get a more confident question than this one.
23. What Rule Is Meant To Be Broken?
Go find out her naughty side with this question!
24. Should Girls Ever Make The First Move?
Learn more about how she feels regarding relationships with this one.
25. Have You Ever Been In Love?
If this is a girl you’re looking to date, you need to get to know her some more, which makes this a really good question.
26. You’re Already In Love With Me, Aren’t You?
Of course she isn’t already in love with you, but this is a confident, flirty question that will get her giggling anyway (mostly at your self-assuredness).
27. Would You Prefer Mr Right … Or Mr Right Now?
You might not be perfect – but you’re here right now, and with this question you’re letting her know your intentions explicitly.
28. What Are You Doing Tonight?
And is there room in her plans for you?
29. What Is My Best Feature?
Get her talking about you, even though she’ll most likely flirt back and say it’s your confidence/arrogance!
30. Did Your Dad Ever Tell You Never To Flirt With Strangers?
This is a play on the “never talk to strangers” advice – and it’s great for getting her to flirt even more!
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Flirty Would You Rather Questions to Ask Over Text
Would you rather questions are great way to grab attention of the person you're trying to flirt with.
31. Would You Rather have lights on or lights off?
32. Would You Rather star in a romantic comedy or a horror movie?
33. Would You Rather date someone who fancied you more or who you fancied more?
34. Would You Rather spend all day at home alone or Netflix & Chill with me?
35. Would You Rather go to a bar or a restaurant?
36. Would You Rather have a dessert, main or starter?
37. Would You Rather spend all day or all night together?
38. Would You Rather be alone with your crush or be surrounded by strangers with your crush?
39. Would You Rather take morning jogs together or night-time strolls?
40. Would You Rather have a sexy shower or a sexy bath?
41. Would You Rather a long kiss or a short pec?
42. Would You Rather listen to your brain or your heart?
43. Would You Rather be romantic or be practical?
44. Would You Rather end the date with a kiss or with a little bit of mystery?
45. Would You Rather hook up with the lights on or off?
46. Would You Rather kiss me or Slap me?
47. Would You Rather sleep with me or stay home alone?
48. Would You Rather hug me or kiss me?
49. Would You Rather give a striptease or get a striptease?
50. Would You Rather be with an introvert lover or an extrovert lover?
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Hot Questions to Ask a Girl
51. Are you a screamer? A moaner?
52. What's your perfect kiss?
53. What's your perfect date?
54. What's your perfect person?
55. Is it ever okay to cheat? Why?
56. What's the most embarrassing thing you've ever been caught doing?
57. If you could take your lover anywhere in the world, where would you go and why?
58. Do you like a man who makes the first move or the boy who sits around waiting for your approval?
59. What are nicknames you'd call your boyfriend?
60. What would you rather be called? (cute, hot, sexy, attractive, etc.)
61. What's the biggest turn-on for you?
62. What kind of relationship are you looking for?
63. What was your first impression of me?
64. What's the farthest you've gone in a relationship?
65. What would you do for a romantic anniversary?
66. Where is your favorite part to be kissed?
67. Would you ever consider us as anything more than friends?
68. What is your favorite thing about me?
69. What's your dream first date looks like?
70. How attractive you think Im?
71. What helps you feel most connected to me?
72. Are you better at asking your partner questions, or listening well?
73. What type of scent do you like on a man?
74. Would you say you have a “type”? Do I fit what you thought you were looking for?
75. What could I do for you that I don't do now?
76. What qualities make me special to you?
77. Do you think we're getting along well?
78. Do you see our love lasting? Do you ever have any doubts?
79. How do you think you best express love?
80. Is there anything we haven't tried that you'd like to?
81. How and where do you like to be touched?
82. What are your thoughts on sex toys?
83. Do you enjoy getting eaten down there?
84. What's your favorite memory of us?
85. Did you enjoy our first date?
86. Did you enjoy our first night?
87. Do you think I deserve a chance?
88. Do you have any fantasies you would like fulfilled?
89. Do you enjoy getting licked?
90. Where would you like me to kiss you?
91. What’s your favorite way to get a man off?
92. What makes you crazy wet without fail?
93. How many different ways have you orgasmed?
94. How can I be a better partner to you?
95. Where would you like to kiss me?
96. Are you into me?
97. Do you like getting spooned?
98. Do you enjoy cuddling?
99. Do you like it rough or gentle?
100. What’s your biggest sexual fear?
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