Now, you are really into someone, as in you really like them, and you want to leave nothing to change. What if you swipe right on them but they actually never get to your profile on their swiping?
What if they’re swiping and swiped left by mistake? And couldn’t go back to your very nice, smiling, by yourself, picture?
Well, Tinder has the solution for you and it is the Super Like feature! And while some might think it’s needy, or intrusive, we think it’s actually a quite helpful tool for some cases and scenarios.
What is Super Like on Tinder?
Tinder super like lets you swipe up or tap the blue star icon to let the person know that you’re super attractive to them. The person you Super Like will take notice – when your profile appears and they’re deciding whether to swipe right, it will show up with a bright blue border and star, highlighting that you Super Liked them. And, when they do swipe right on your Super Like, it’ll be an immediate match!
Is Tinder Super Like Creepy?
“Guys who Super Like are needy/desperate/creepy” are some of the things we have heard in regards to Super Liking. But really, after you match –by regular swiping means- the guy can turn out to be a creep as well! It has happened to me and I bet it has happened to a lot of people out there, so why would Super Liking be any different?
Creeps will be creeps, Super Like or not.
is Tinder Super like Worth it?
Conversations between people that matched after one of them superliked tend to last a lot longer, specifically, 70% longer! Now, isn’t that a good sign of maybe more good things to come? Furthermore, you are actually 3 times more likely to match with someone that you superliked than with someone you just swiped right.
And of course this makes total sense! You are getting full exposure and setting yourself apart from the rest. And hopefully, you followed my advice and also have a solid profile to back you up.
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How to Use Tinder Super Like Without Being Creepy:
Have a good profile
Even if you are not planning on superliking anyone. This is key. It is a waste of a Super Like if you have blurry photos and/or an empty bio.
You are breaking from the pack here and jumping the gun a bit –after all, the whole idea of Tinder is that the other person won’t know you like them until they say they like you too- so you don’t want to have an unremarkable profile after you did that very brave Super Liking thing.
That’s where you appear creepy instead of attractive and way too intense instead of interesting. Here is where a good bio comes in very handy as well as having just the right photos in your profile.
Remember, you are giving them an open letter of presentation and you’re not waiting for them to pick it out from the bunch. You’re strongly encouraging them to read it, so please, make it worth their time
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Don’t super like everyone
Don’t just Super Like anyone. Be selective. Remember, you are saying that you’re really interested in them, so only do it when this is actually true. That way, you stay far away from the “desperate” line and get closer to the “actually interested” side of the spectrum, and that’s really all it is about!
You get one Super Like a day, you don’t want to use it in just anyone, and you want to make it worth your time. Or even if you have Tinder Plus or Tinder Goal, five Super Likes a day is not really that much if you think about it, so consider your decision wisely before going for that.
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This should be obvious but just in case…be sure to follow through with that Super Like! So you Super Liked her and she liked you back! Awesome, it’s a match. Now actually text her. I’ve seen it happen so many times, and it doesn’t make any sense to me.
The number of matches in which no one ever starts the actual conversation is outstanding! So please, pretty please with a cherry on top, don’t let her go! Follow that Super Like with a good opening line (Please don’t just say “Hey” or “What’s up”). Check
An extra tip here: If you Super Liked her and you were following my advice on actually Super Liking people that you’re really interested in, then there must be something about her photos or her bio that you actually really likes, so why not start there?
After all, you took a risk and it paid up, so now, it’s time to pace yourself a little bit so that you won’t come across as too intense for their taste.
Worst case scenario, you don’t get a like back, no match, you’ll have another Super Like tomorrow. But I strongly believe that if you follow my humble –but useful- advice, you will definitely have a greater chance of making the most of your Super Like.
And remember, with that many people out there using Tinder, the goal is to stand out in the best way, and what better way than saying “I really, really like you” without having to write it down?
Just be brave, after all, if you ask me? The real losers are those that never have the courage to actually go for what they want.