We all know the story — we had fun, we think they had fun and we’d like to connect…but what to text a guy after a hookup?
Honestly, it’s not that hard. Express you had fun, one way or another.
Depending on the connection the two of you have you can obviously edit the message to suit (such as including internal jokes or referencing something you did together), but the baseline should be something encouraging or inviting. Given you want to see them again, that is.
But..here is the million-dollar question..
Should you text a guy after a hookup?
Yes. Don’t overthink about it. If you’ve had an amazing time with the person then it makes sense to send them a text. Share your feelings with them and tell them you wanna hang out with them again. However, you might want to send the post hookup text after a day or two; not after a week or on the same night.
25 Texts to Send a Guy After sex:
Two words, that really say it all.
2. That was epic
Need you say more?
3. Let’s do that again
You can also say: Want an encore?
4. For some reason, I can’t stop thinking about you naked
This is a flattering thought, no? I’m pretty sure he’ll think so!
5. I had fun last night. Would love to see you again 🙂
Being straight forward is always the easiest way to communicate and this states exactly what you mean. No hinting, just direct communication. Of course, you can change the first sentence to whatever describes “last night” the best.
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6. Hey 😉 I don’t know if you’re free tonight, but I’m gonna hang w some friends at [insert bar/place], so join us if you’re up for it!
Giving him an invitation to see you again is an easy way to let him know you’re still interested. And if he doesn’t reply, you’re out with friends having fun, so at least you’re distracted by people who love you!
7. Round 2?
Very simple, but simple does it sometimes.
8. After last night…I gotta give it to you: your chest muscles are legendary. Seriously.
Whatever it is that’s legendary, be sure to point it out. After all, wouldn’t you like to hear what he thinks is legendary about you?
9. You’re great in bed. Just saying 😉
Tell it like it is!
10. Last night was hot
If you feel like it, you can even write: “Last night was hot. Sizzling hot.”
11. I can’t stop thinking about you. Naked.
Cheeky in just the right way. You can exchange “naked” for “going down on me” or “kissing me” or whatever else it might be.
12. TBH I’m not big on first time s3x w anyone, but last night was GOOD…
Not all first times are great, esp. not if you’re nervous, but that doesn’t mean that it wasn’t good. You Can exchange the first part for “I’m always a bit nervous about first time s3x with someone” or “I always think first time hook-up w someone is a bit messy.”
13. Wanna do that again some time? 😉
Flirty and to the point!
14. I must say, I enjoyed last night…
If you aren’t just after the s3x, saying you enjoyed it, as opposed to just wanting to see him naked again, can be a good idea.
There are so many different GIFs circulating the net. Some are hilarious and just perfect if you know someone’s sense of humor. Just be sure you don’t accidentally offend him. Some men have a frail ego where s3x is concerned…
16. I must say, you certainly know your way around a woman’s body…
Flattery, oh sweet flattery. The truth is, most of us appreciate hearing genuine compliments after s3x.
Everyone’s different and no matter how great sex you’ve had in the past, you don’t know how someone will feel about you. It’s a lot about finding out what someone likes when you first meet and knowing they enjoyed the first time, even when you don’t know each other’s bodies well, is great.
17. Care for seconds? 😉
Not that you’re dinner, but still…
18. You did things to my body last night that I’m going to remember for a very long time…
More flattery. And who wouldn’t perk up at hearing that?!
19. I don’t know about you, but I’m thinking we should do that again some time…
Asking for more…
20. Now that I’ve had a taster, I want more…
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21. What you did to me last night was amazing.
Another way to flatter his ego.
22. After last night, I have a suspicion you’re addictive…
We all know great s3x is addictive. It’s the high you want again and again and again and… Also, you can play around with this, he can joke about there being no cure for this addiction, etc.
23. Now that I’ve seen you naked I am unable to concentrate on work…what am I going to do? 😉
Letting him know he’s sufficiently distracting.
24. I’m thinking about s3x instead of work right now. What have you done to me? 😉
This is playful and can lead to a very dirty conversation if you want it to…
25. So, about last night…I vote for doing that again! 😉
The other vote is up to him…